Handsome brooding vampire guy has to swoop in all sensitive mouth and overhanging forehead. How 'bout leaving some scraps for the homely-looking fellows who don't turn evil when they get some?

Doyle ,'Life of the Party'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 02, 2009 11:15:36 am PDT #15013 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

It took me forever to realize that he really honestly didn't have a preference. He tells me he thinks I'm beautiful regardless. Kind of mind-boggling, especially since I have so little sense of what kind of hair works best on me. But now I'm so used to his lack of opinion/preference, that it surprises me to hear men state their preferences for women's hair.

Yeah, this is me and Tom too.


Lee - Jul 02, 2009 11:15:52 am PDT #15014 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I've been growing mine out too, but I may chop it really short soon so that I can see what color it is when it's not dyed.


Connie Neil - Jul 02, 2009 11:15:54 am PDT #15015 of 30000
brillig

I think Hubby has a blind spot against short hair. I point out beautiful women with short hair and asks what he thinks of them, and he says, "It's too bad she cut her hair" and such. He's a caveman, but I love him.


Zenkitty - Jul 02, 2009 11:21:47 am PDT #15016 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Plei, I want to start using henna. Any suggestions? I've developed an allergy to the chemical dyes, and they're ruining my hair. My hair's naturally v. dark brown with undertones of red, and now about 40% grey. The last dye job was way too dark. I'm thinking of dying it red from now on, so that the gray will become red and the black will stay black. It'll either look cool and strange, or just weird and awful.


-t - Jul 02, 2009 11:22:10 am PDT #15017 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I am so ready to chop mine off. It's always in my way, a hassle to wash, takes forever to dry. I just need to figure out where to go to get it cut, and what words to say to the person with the scissors to get something reasonably flattering done. I hope I manage that before I get fed up and hack off a ponytail with pinking shears.


JZ - Jul 02, 2009 11:32:07 am PDT #15018 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Holy Mother of God, I want this dress. Seeing that it costs more than a month's rent, I'm gonna say Not in this lifetime, but... ohhhhhh. I'll have to be satisfied with knowing that somewhere there is a parallel dimension me who already owns and loves it.

I have no real hair preferences for myself at this point, except: (a) my one true bang length and style is the Bettie Page; (b) contra Hec, I'm rather preferring the deeper darker browns I've been using lately (on the rare occasions when I color it at all); and (c) never below the shoulders, never again. At or an inch past the shoulders is as long as my hair can possibly get without exploding into a billion scraggy split ends; adding insult to injury, despite the scraggle the hair maintains enough weight to pull out all the curl, so it's truly the worst of all possible worlds: dull, stringy, shapeless and frizzy all at once.

And, bah. Now I'm craving Mexican food something fierce.


smonster - Jul 02, 2009 11:34:51 am PDT #15019 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

That dress is fantabulous. I join you in your dress lust, JZ.


JZ - Jul 02, 2009 11:40:44 am PDT #15020 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Oooh! Check out the Teppylicious corset!

And, damn. Simple but crazy gorgeous for only $64.


Barb - Jul 02, 2009 11:40:50 am PDT #15021 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

That dress is fab, but thankfully, I don't feel a single twinge of covetousness knowing that a) cap sleeves make me look like a football player in drag, and such a ruffly neck would completely overwhelm me. I'd look like I was being eaten alive by Audrey II.

One of my biggest woes- the lack of a long, swan-like neck.


Barb - Jul 02, 2009 11:41:23 am PDT #15022 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Oooh! Check out the Teppylicious corset!

EEEEEEEE!!! Teppy MUST have that corset!