Wow, those are gorgeous. I wish I had some money.
William ,'Conversations with Dead People'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Huh. "Belate" is a word. It means "To cause something to be late."
Madoff just got sentenced to 150 years in prison.
I have "Cafe at Night" on my iPod.
And 150 years somehow seems like not quite enough for the bastard.
I can't stop reading stuff about the fanfic warnings kerfailfuffle. It's mesmerizing.
oh, dear. do I want to know?
I've not read much of it at all, myself. What very little I read made me think: "Huh...I ought to think about including warnings for triggery scenes in the future."
I can't stop reading stuff about the fanfic warnings kerfailfuffle. It's mesmerizing.
Oh, my god, stop reading. People have failed so hard.
oh, dear. do I want to know?
Some authors don't post warnings even if their fic includes rape/child abuse/torture, etc. One big reason they cite is that such warnings "spoil" the fic. And they think that their artistic integrity is paramount over rape survivors' actual trauma.
Rape survivors are saying, wow, do you know that if a fic doesn't have a warning, I assume there's nothing to be wary of, and then when I click through to your rapefic, it triggers me?
Anti-warning people are saying, stop whining, rape survivors, and if you click something without a warning, it's your own fault (like, say, if you wore a short skirt and got raped, it's your own fault). Also suggesting that maybe rape survivors need therapy to get over their issues.
There's also a very big misunderstanding wherein "trigger" is being equated with "stuff that I personally don't like." And rape survivors are saying, do you even KNOW what being triggered actually means?
Oh! And the slippery-slope fallacy, wherein anti-warning people are saying, but but but, if I have to warn for rape and child abuse, then soon I'll have to warn for the color orange! (That's an actual argument.)
Pro-warning people are saying, wow, is it that hard to be a decent human being?
And apparently it is.
Oh, my god, stop reading. People have failed so hard.
Man, I was so impressed with Zvi during RaceFail, and now I just keep cringing at her posts. Gah.