It cooled down pretty rapidly last night. We hit the high 70s in the daytime hours, though.
'Conviction (1)'
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Good luck with the move, Stephanie!
NYC is perfect today. High 70's, just enough cloud cover, and a lovely breeze. Please to be keeping this weather for the next two months?
I am trying not to hate the people with weather in the 70s. I don't think we hit the 70 as a low.
I don't think we hit the 70 as a low.
Man, this weekend was brutal, and I think I actually had heat exhaustion Friday night. We were at a meeting at a friend's house, and his central air had quit working earlier in the day, and instead of cancelling the meeting, we went ahead with it. We had the meeting in the basement, with a big box fan blowing on high, but it was just recirculating hot air. (The thermostat in the house never got below 85.)
I was dizzy and headachey and nauseous, even though I kept drinking water.
I should have just said I needed to go home, but I *hate* to be the person that ruins the festivities when everyone else is just fine. (The Boy was in charge of the meeting, so I couldn't have just bowed out and let the meeting continue. If I left, then *he* left, and if he left, the meeting had to end, and everyone else was having a good time.)
When we came home, I drank tons of gatorade, and went to bed.
So then Saturday I lifted weights at the gym, and on all the machines I used a lower weight than I normally do. When I got home, I had muscle fatigue like I've never had before -- practically muscle *failure* in my quads. Like, weakness, as if they couldn't hold me up, not just soreness or tiredness.
Drank more gatorade, loafed around, still didn't feel great.
Today, all my muscles hurt in the way they do when I *increase* the weights, not *decrease* them.
Fucking weather. And I'm a dummy for not insisting we cut the meeting short on Friday. I'm really intolerant of the heat, partly b/c of one of the meds I take. I should know better and enforce my boundaries better.
It's just fucking hard when my boundaries impact a roomful of people, not just one other person. (Like, if it had just been The Boy and me, and we were somewhere with no a/c, I would have definitely said I needed to go. But making The Boy leave on Friday would have meant everyone had to leave, and everyone else was having a good time and seemed disinclined to leave despite the stifling temperature.)
In conclusion, gatorade.
Hope you feel better, Steph.
In situations like that, if you're feeling really bad and if the rest of the meeting isn't going to be ridiculously long, could you go wait in the car and run the air conditioner? I've seen my mom do that sometimes.
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if the rest of the meeting isn't going to be ridiculously long, could you go wait in the car and run the air conditioner?
If I left, then everyone would have, mostly because they would have been concerned for me. Which is very kind of them. And exactly why I would have felt like I was the killjoy ending the meeting, and why was I the only one who apparently couldn't handle the heat? (I know the answer: different people react differently, + drugs, but I still feel like having a legitimate reason still makes me a killjoy.)
That's a tough situation, Tep. In the future, maybe remember there are more alternatives than the two - staying in the heat and going home - like you lie down in another room with ice on your neck while everyone else continues the meeting, maybe. Not that you should be expected to think of everything when you are feeling bad, of course. And if you do just have to go home, even if it does impact a bunch of other people, it's not your fault.
In short, feel better.
DH just texted me from ABQ during his layover - it's cooler there than here. Freaky.