Aw, Sean. I'd say something comforting and/or encouraging, but I'm the girl version of you. Except I suspect I'm older than you, and have wasted more time with crazy people! I don't recommend the pretending-to-be-sexless route. I've been doing that since my last relationship with a crazy person ended in 2004. It's safe, but lonesome.
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Zenkitty - Jun 13, 2009 3:49:44 pm PDT #12796 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
tommyrot - Jun 13, 2009 3:54:34 pm PDT #12797 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
Yeah, I can relate. But the self-pity thing is s dead-end, as I've found out from my own experience.
Jessica - Jun 13, 2009 4:16:32 pm PDT #12798 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
Maybe the cute girl is chatting up the sound board op because she's nervous about talking directly to you.
I'm just saying.
Laura - Jun 13, 2009 4:21:29 pm PDT #12799 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
{{{{{Sean}}}}} I'm sorry you are feeling the weight of loneliness. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to feel valued, appreciated and folded into loving arms.
Exactly. Also, I am convinced there are plenty of potential loved ones that deserve to have you in their life.
Zenkitty - Jun 13, 2009 4:26:30 pm PDT #12800 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
the self-pity thing is a dead-end
Damn, and I've gotten so good at it!
tommyrot - Jun 13, 2009 4:28:49 pm PDT #12801 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
Possibly I was self-pity champion at some point, but I'm now retired.
Mostly.
Volans - Jun 13, 2009 4:46:51 pm PDT #12802 of 30000
move out and draw fire
Sean, you are foamy, in both looks and personality.
Talk to the cute girl, see if at least you can start, if not a friendship, at least a pleasant working relationship. See where it goes.
Fay - Jun 13, 2009 4:48:20 pm PDT #12803 of 30000
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.
Yeah - actually, I agree. Talk to the cute girl. Don't have to hit on her, if she's flirting with some other guy, but you should totally talk to her.
ChiKat - Jun 13, 2009 4:58:54 pm PDT #12804 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
Yeah, I can relate. But the self-pity thing is s dead-end, as I've found out from my own experience.
standing in the corner with tommyrot.
I totally get the feelings. I also totally agree with Fay:
Talk to the cute girl. Don't have to hit on her, if she's flirting with some other guy, but you should totally talk to her.
WindSparrow - Jun 13, 2009 5:12:50 pm PDT #12805 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Sometimes flirting is just flirting. It's fun, and even when, or especially when, it does not particularly lead anywhere more fun, it is worth doing. So just because she is flirting with some other guy does not mean she is not open to flirting with anyone else.