These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I -- how about that?

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sumi - May 28, 2009 5:19:02 am PDT #11251 of 30000
Art Crawl!!!

Happy Birthday, Sean!


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - May 28, 2009 5:22:09 am PDT #11252 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Shir, thanks! It's a 6000-word essay, and I don't think it's particularly interesting, so I wouldn't want to bother you with it unless you were really keen on the topic (disability and social policy - which doesn't even interest me, but that's because social policy makes my eyes glaze over. You should have seen me in class this semester. The ceiling tiles in my classroom and I got to know each other well). But thanks for the offer!

followed by the-so-familiar-sound-of-geeky-laugh-when-BtVS-is-mentioned.

Yeah, we really do know that one well, don't we? I like your analysis of what the embarassment is about. It's true - I get so baffled by people who don't know fandom. What a thing to miss out on.


Nora Deirdre - May 28, 2009 5:32:28 am PDT #11253 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I have a phone interview (my first bit of any sort of traction since I started the post-Masters job search) today at 11am EST (8am board time). ~ma would be most appreciated!

Also, in discussing this position with a few people who are on the periphery of it, I have come to understand that the fall is the busiest month for this office. When should I mention that I have a 2 week vacation in October scheduled and booked? Now? Second interview? During the offer negotiations?


ChiKat - May 28, 2009 5:38:46 am PDT #11254 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

When should I mention that I have a 2 week vacation in October scheduled and booked?

After you have accepted the offer unless they ask something in the interview about any conflicts.

I didn't hear about my interview yesterday. Poopyheads. I hope I hear from them today. How long should I give before following up? (They told me to give them till yesterday to make a decision.)


Barb - May 28, 2009 5:40:58 am PDT #11255 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Oh #$(@&$(*#$&(&@(&!!!

I just called my general physician's office to schedule an appointment for a blood draw. Apparently, I am no longer a patient. Since I've healthy and haven't been into the office in four years, I no longer count.

But I'm welcome to reregister as a new patient although it'll be a few weeks before I can get an appointment. Feh.


amych - May 28, 2009 5:41:15 am PDT #11256 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Not before you have an offer. It's part of the "when can you start" conversation, not part of the "why should we hire you and not someone else" convo, unless it's the kind of job where "we need a warm body by Monday" is the main qualification. You're not in those jobs anymore, which yay!

Anyway, their busy fall almost certainly has up and down cycles, and you and they can make plans to have the busy times covered if it comes to that.


Laura - May 28, 2009 5:48:39 am PDT #11257 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Job~ma Nora. I agree that you don't need to mention until they talk about your start date.

Congrats, vw! I have to wait till later to watch the video.

Barb, can you get the blood draw at a walk-in clinic?


Barb - May 28, 2009 5:50:21 am PDT #11258 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Barb, can you get the blood draw at a walk-in clinic?

I called my gyn's office. They're actually humans there and since this was an issue documented during the surgery, they have all the background info. But it's really annoying to discover that you think you've had a regular physician this whole time and you kind of haven't.


Shir - May 28, 2009 5:58:38 am PDT #11259 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Job~ma, Nora.

Seska, if you still wanna triple-check the terms you're using (if I know them...), you can take my offer.


Vortex - May 28, 2009 6:07:16 am PDT #11260 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

But it's really annoying to discover that you think you've had a regular physician this whole time and you kind of haven't.

yeah, you would think that they would let you know.