[Real Irish wheaten bread, toasted.]
jealous
What they said, erin. I hope you were able to get some comforting rest.
Jayne: Captain, can you stop her from bein' cheerful, please? Mal: I don't believe there is a power in the 'verse that can stop Kaylee from being cheerful. Sometimes you just wanna duct tape her mouth and dump her in the hold for a month.
'Serenity'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Laura - May 24, 2009 3:55:57 am PDT #10778 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
Barb - May 24, 2009 5:30:30 am PDT #10779 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”
They were taught not to speak directly about what they want and so a lot of them use this weird passive-aggressive shit which is MUCH more annoying than being forthright.
I swear, in my family, it's as much cultural as it is generational, because I see some of my cousins using this technique and it makes me nuts.
erin, I hope you got some rest last night.
when she starts yelling, it's not personal, it's just Mediterranean.
::SNORT:: That's FUNNY.
Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - May 24, 2009 5:56:03 am PDT #10780 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"
::SNORT:: That's FUNNY.
Not when you're sitting in the corner staring at the shouty woman, boggling, and thinking "This isn't how my passive-aggressive family handles confict", it isn't. :P
She seriously doesn't get me and my family, either. "You don't talk about anything. Ever." That's right. We're Anglo-Irish. The most we ever talk about is the weather...
beth b - May 24, 2009 6:28:00 am PDT #10781 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
erin, being a dispatcher is hard. You get a lot of calls where people are just too far out on the edge. I 'm sorry you had a rough one. I wish i could say there won't be others. But you do vital work and help a lot of eole.
Barb - May 24, 2009 6:47:40 am PDT #10782 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”
Not when you're sitting in the corner staring at the shouty woman, boggling, and thinking "This isn't how my passive-aggressive family handles confict", it isn't. :P
It's funny because my very Cuban-American family is the same way--I'm the mutant weirdo who doesn't tend to be shouty but who doesn't understand the non-talkers either. My husband's family is just SO polite and they wouldn't dream of creating conflict whereas mine lives for conflict.
And they all wonder why I became a writer...
Scrappy - May 24, 2009 6:51:31 am PDT #10783 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
The DH, who comes from a shouty Jewish family, thinks it's hilarious how my family doesn't raise their voices.
Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - May 24, 2009 6:59:36 am PDT #10784 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"
My husband's family is just SO polite and they wouldn't dream of creating conflict whereas mine lives for conflict.
Yes! That's how I was raised - don't get me wrong, *masses* of conflict, but dealt with through not talking to each other for six days, rather than getting angry. I realise that this is not healthy, but it's my way. Or it was. I'm learning to be shouty now. I'm not very good at it yet, and tend just to make incoherent noise that frightens people...
Barb - May 24, 2009 7:10:18 am PDT #10785 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”
The DH, who comes from a shouty Jewish family, thinks it's hilarious how my family doesn't raise their voices.
That's what cracks me up about my husband's family. The Southern trumps the Jewish in the politeness sweepstakes.
ION, I'm listening to the Grease soundtrack and flashing back to high school musical theatre.
Hil R. - May 24, 2009 7:19:47 am PDT #10786 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
That's what cracks me up about my husband's family. The Southern trumps the Jewish in the politeness sweepstakes.
My dad's family are German Jews. They do not shout. Ever. Actually showing that you're upset is not something that Germans do. At all. My mom's family are Polish and Russian, but mellowed by a few generations of living in New Hampshire.
juliana - May 24, 2009 7:55:28 am PDT #10787 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
They were taught not to speak directly about what they want and so a lot of them use this weird passive-aggressive shit which is MUCH more annoying than being forthright.
OH HAI Minnesota. (Apologies to Daniel and other Midwesterners, but my experience confirms that behavior.) My people are not passive-aggressive. We either Talk/Yell Shit Out or decide it's not worth it.