Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - May 19, 2009 5:37:11 am PDT #10204 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I chuckled as well, but I know that when Kristin is in the midst of struggling with ADD she has a very hard time joking about it. Chalk it up to me be extra defensive of her on what what had already been a stressful day. Didn't mean to over react.

Nah, it's a good point to make. I've been in that place where I can sit on the couch for literally 48 hours struggling with myself and utterly unable to pick up the thing I desperately need to be working on. Up all night and crying because I just need to do it and I simply can't.

It's a very different thing from my more usual putting-off-of-important-stuff-because-I-don't-like-doing-it-well-past-the-point-of-reason schtick. Which also sucks, but in a difference universe from the former.


Steph L. - May 19, 2009 5:46:06 am PDT #10205 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Also, Teppy is my hero. ijs.

Me? What did I do? (I have a fierce migraine, so all I can remember of recent posts is Babyfras and ADD; I have no idea what I might have said recently that is hero-esque.)

And Tom Scola is made of win.

Always true.


Tom Scola - May 19, 2009 5:47:28 am PDT #10206 of 30000
hwæt

Teppy is my hero, too.


Hil R. - May 19, 2009 5:50:18 am PDT #10207 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Yay Babyfras!


Beverly - May 19, 2009 5:52:35 am PDT #10208 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Nah, it's a good point to make. I've been in that place where I can sit on the couch for literally 48 hours struggling with myself and utterly unable to pick up the thing I desperately need to be working on. Up all night and crying because I just need to do it and I simply can't.

It's a very different thing from my more usual putting-off-of-important-stuff-because-I-don't-like-doing-it-well-past-the-point-of-reason schtick. Which also sucks, but in a difference universe from the former.

::nods::

OTOH, Baby! Welcome, wee one, to the Family Fras and the larger family of Buffistas! There're a lot of people who've been waiting for your debut, foremost among them a pretty darn nice set of parents.


Steph L. - May 19, 2009 6:00:30 am PDT #10209 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Teppy is my hero, too.

My migraine-addled brain is honored but still confused.

I gotta talk to my doctor about a better migraine drug than the weak-ass one I take. IIRC, my doctor didn't want to try Imitrex and other triptans unless we *had* to, because of some scary side effect -- maybe heart stuff? So what I take is a fairly older drug that's a combination of tylenol, chloral hydrate, and isometheptene (which constricts blood vessels). It's kind of crap, but often works if I take it early enough.

This time, I did not take it early enough. Sometimes I can't tell if it's sinus or migraine. I chose sinus yesterday. I chose poorly.

It's like the elephant kicking my face is also stabbing me with an ice pick. That's one talented elephant.


Jessica - May 19, 2009 6:02:34 am PDT #10210 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I experimentally had only one cup of coffee this morning.

No headache. First time in weeks.

So now my question is, WTF, coffee? I thought we had a good thing going here! Why are you breaking up with me????


NoiseDesign - May 19, 2009 6:02:50 am PDT #10211 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

That's one talented elephant.

Flexible too.


Barb - May 19, 2009 6:11:59 am PDT #10212 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Thanks sj. The ibu's helping, so hopefully, this is just a mild bug. The only problem right now is I'm hungry and just not ambitious enough to anything about it.


Calli - May 19, 2009 6:22:24 am PDT #10213 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I experimentally had only one cup of coffee this morning.

Me too! There were three shots of espresso in it, and it was a big cup, but there was only one container.

And kudos to the local Caribou Coffee, with it's kind barristas who clearly speak "undercaffienated." From turning my mumbles into a large cappuccino to gently directing me to the ginormous display of packaged coffee (I'd run out, hence my morning problems) to "The door's on the left. Er, the other left," they gently helped me through the first, fuzziest part of my day.