What I would miss most with Hubby is the ongoing conversation. We can say things with partial words that it would take others 20 minutes to say. We've developed tri-lingual puns and use quotes from shows we saw 20 years ago. Our friends will say, "Ignore them, they're speaking Neilish."
Also, customers shouldn't come in and open a chat with "I have a few issues." It just makes me laugh at them.
Dating is not the most helpful method for figuring out whether you want to be with someone for the long haul. A loty of of people are fun to be with at a cool restaurant or movie or while having terrific sex.
I don't think you should marry anyone unless you can enjoy doing things with them like scrubbing the bathtub while they are in the other room struggling to get the trash bag out of the can. Finding someone with whom it is fun to share the mundane is rare and to be treasured.
As always, Scrappy is wise.
I don't think you should marry anyone unless you can enjoy doing things with them like scrubbing the bathtub while they are in the other room struggling to get the trash bag out of the can. Finding someone with whom it is fun to share the mundane is rare and to be treasured.
Huh. I have
friends
like that....
Scrappy is wise, and I'm loving this discussion. But I'm still trying to figure out how Hec scaled the astral plane this morning before coffee.
I say again, Scrappy for Chief of Buffista Isle.
So? Wear to find someone to scrub the tub and then go to a show? (rhetorical question)
So? Wear to find someone to scrub the tub and then go to a show? (rhetorical question)
Change your OKCupid name to TubScrubber.
As always, P-C is pragmatic.
Scrappy truly is wise.
The couples I see who really enjoy their differences and take pride in the way they manage life together are the strongest and most likely to weather any storm with grace.
For every wedding I officiate, I offer a paragraph from Corelli's Mandolin about how love is what is left over when lust and romance burn away. Every couple who sees it wants it in their vows. That gives me hope for their lives together.