As Willow goes, so goes my nation.

Oz ,'Selfless'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Glamcookie - May 18, 2009 6:22:30 am PDT #10051 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Happy belated birthday, Vortex! Enjoy your "birthday week."

Congrats to Aims the grad! Woot!


Trudy Booth - May 18, 2009 6:37:59 am PDT #10052 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I guess I just feel like I've gotten to a point in my life where most things I do feel a little hollow without somebody there to share it with.

I hear you, Seanie. At this point its just getting fucking old. They've been telling me since I was fifteen that I don't need a boyfriend to be happy and I should just be me... and I guess I believe that. But I'm tired of it.


tommyrot - May 18, 2009 6:54:39 am PDT #10053 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Yeah, I'm 44 and have never had a serious relationship. Lately I've been sorta' flipping back and forth between feeling like it'd be OK if I stay single the rest of my life, and feeling like I'm really missing out by not being in a relationship.


Volans - May 18, 2009 7:02:54 am PDT #10054 of 30000
move out and draw fire

feeling like I'm really missing out by not being in a relationship

Yeah, you're really missing out on the other person's random mood swings, bizarre demands, strange sleeping habits, strange eating habits, fights about money...and that's just in a healthy relationship.

Of course, you're also missing out on the potential for daily sex, but that might just be Vortex's parents.


NoiseDesign - May 18, 2009 7:03:51 am PDT #10055 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

I don't want to have daily sex with Vortex's parents. IJS.


Trudy Booth - May 18, 2009 7:08:16 am PDT #10056 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

It occurs to me that maybe part of the reason Vortex's Mom is being so difficult because she's NGA for the first time in however long.

Yeah, you're really missing out on the other person's random mood swings, bizarre demands, strange sleeping habits, strange eating habits, fights about money...and that's just in a healthy relationship.

I get a lot of that from the roommates and don't get to have sex with either one of them.


Connie Neil - May 18, 2009 7:31:23 am PDT #10057 of 30000
brillig

Hubby thanks all of you lonely Buffistas for the hugs he's been getting, and he wishes you all congenial companionship. It's not been the smoothest or most rewarding relationship, but I can't imagine my life without my Grateful Dead/Viking death metal-loving guy.


tommyrot - May 18, 2009 7:39:01 am PDT #10058 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

strange sleeping habits

My cat insists on sleeping on my arm and hand when I sleep on my side. When I sleep on my stomach she insists on sleeping on my back.

Good thing she's not a big cat.


Calli - May 18, 2009 7:43:31 am PDT #10059 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My cat insists on sleeping on my arm and hand when I sleep on my side. When I sleep on my stomach she insists on sleeping on my back.

My cat does the former. He doesn't do the latter because I start giggling when he tries, and then he has to go off and fish the used kleenex out of the trash in revenge.


Sean K - May 18, 2009 7:58:13 am PDT #10060 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I honestly thought it was all a lie, a deception, something people are telling themselves to feel less alone in this world.

I know love exists, in the form of caring about other people.

But whether romantic love exists? Maybe. Maybe not. Whether people are lying to themselves or not, I'm not going to fault anyone for wanting to feel less alone in the world.

Which is all to say, thanks Shir.

And everybody else.