On-screen and off, Grant was pursued by women, but his openly gay relationship with Randolph Scott lasted until both were pressured by studios to marry.

Hee. I'd love it if there had to be a follow-up note along the lines of "No, not each other, you maroons."

How gay Cary Grant? Stop.

Gay Cary Grant Fine, Stop. How You?

Part of me feels like I should be nothing but devastation now.

My theory is, for both cancer patients and their families, is that living and enjoying your normal lives is a little victory over cancer. I'm so sorry, Susan.

So who is the best gay in history?

Walt Whitman

You guys, my mom just tried to add me on Facebook.

This is one of the more frightening sentences I have ever read.

I just got back from the opening night of "Doubt," courtesy of my friend the newspaper editor. I liked the play itself, but am dubious about the approach they took to some of the characters. Anyway, there was a dessert reception afterwards, and one of the desserts was creme brulee in what were basically shot glasses. The plastic spoons were soup spoons, which meant that you could only eat about half the custard before the cup got smaller than the spoon. I don't know if this was poor planning or a sociological experiment.

I am sleepy and yet? Cannot sleep. Sister's surgery is tomorrow and I am at my parent's house with Em while Joe is at home by himself and I am bleh.

But, I did get homework done! Go me!

And because it deserves it's own post...

{{{Susan}}} Many thoughts for you and your family, sweetie. I'll be thinking of and praying for you guys.

Love and prayers, Aimee. I hope everything goes well tomorrow.

The plastic spoons were soup spoons, which meant that you could only eat about half the custard before the cup got smaller than the spoon. I don't know if this was poor planning or a sociological experiment.

Pah - that's easy! You use the handle to eat with!

....do I win some creme brulee? Do I? Do I?

You use the handle to eat with!

That's what we did, because who lets a little thing get in the way of creme brulee?

I'll be thinking about you and your sister tomorrow, Aimee. Hang in there.

Lots of vibes for your sister tomorrow, Aimee.