On my seventh birthday, I wanted a toy fire truck, and I didn't get it, and you were real nice about it, and then the house next door burnt down, and then real firetrucks came, and for years I thought you set the fire for me. And if you did, you can tell me!

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Aug 29, 2025 10:23:25 am PDT #9054 of 9064

Thanks y’all! I woke up feeling like crap but am hopeful the meds are finally kicking in and I’ll have a nice evening DJing for dancing


erikaj - Aug 29, 2025 10:28:38 am PDT #9055 of 9064
Always Anti-fascist!

I feel like I should write a long post to catch up, as tribute,Meara, but it's kind of not like that around here, anymore.


Steph L. - Aug 29, 2025 10:31:31 am PDT #9056 of 9064
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Yesterday the physical therapist modified some of my exercises and completely got rid of a couple of exercises that were causing pain, and that combined with starting a tapering dose of prednisone this morning, my hip/quad feels SO CLOSE to normal! It's amazing. I don't think I realized how much pain I was in until it stopped. Like, I don't have to plan my breaks from the computer in terms of "What do I need to accomplish while I'm on my feet, so I can do it all at once so I don't have to get back up right away, because getting up hurts like a bitch?" I've just been hopping up for stuff without even thinking about it.

Pain blows, y'all.

Also cancer, in case I haven't mentioned it. Cancer blows. Cancer can go suck a dick.


erikaj - Aug 29, 2025 10:38:20 am PDT #9057 of 9064
Always Anti-fascist!

totally. David Simon threatens people with "A bag of unsalted dicks" from time to time and I'm sure he would approve of my borrowing that because he had an artist sister that died young of some aggressive version of it years ago. Cancer can eat stale unsalted dicks.


DavidS - Aug 29, 2025 10:38:56 am PDT #9058 of 9064
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Cancer can go suck a dick.

That would be a hard sell in Amsterdam's red light district.


Steph L. - Aug 29, 2025 10:46:32 am PDT #9059 of 9064
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Cancer can eat stale unsalted dicks.

Ha! Dicks with no seasoning at all!


erikaj - Aug 29, 2025 10:50:08 am PDT #9060 of 9064
Always Anti-fascist!

Yeah, you know, initially wouldn't have thought that rubbed it in, but it does, somehow.


brenda m - Aug 29, 2025 11:35:02 am PDT #9061 of 9064
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I just accidentally put on a really cute outfit so now I’m feeling like I need to upgrade my plans for the day.

Which OK I do actually have plans for a nice late lunch with a friend which is the whole reason I changed in the first place.

Two great restaurants in my old neighborhood are closing this weekend so today is a four course menu at Heritage Restaurant and Caviar Bar [link]

Tomorrow is drinks and burgers at Twisted Spoke, [link] a biker bar that’s been there for 30-some years, only one of who’s claims to fame is the Saturday night midnight to 3 AM Smut & Eggs special, where you can get late night brunch accompanied by 70s porn on the TVs. I have no idea the origin of that tradition.


-t - Aug 29, 2025 11:49:31 am PDT #9062 of 9064
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Well, those sound very different but both fantastic! Bummer they are closing, but glad you get to enjoy them one last time. Also, yay cute outfit!


meara - Aug 29, 2025 12:23:40 pm PDT #9063 of 9064

Those do both sound fantastic!!