Buckle up, kids! Daddy's puttin' the hammer down.

Spike ,'Touched'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Jul 28, 2025 7:38:44 am PDT #8483 of 8501
Our wings are not tired.

All kinds of ~ma headed your way, sj. Let us know how he makes out at the hospital.


lisah - Jul 28, 2025 7:47:39 am PDT #8484 of 8501
Punishingly Intricate

Sending love and light to your step dad, sj!! That’s so scary!


sj - Jul 28, 2025 7:48:58 am PDT #8485 of 8501
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Poor ltc was right next to me when I got the phone call.


meara - Jul 28, 2025 7:53:19 am PDT #8486 of 8501

That all sounds very frustrating Laura!!

Good luck sj.

I am trying to figure out why I was doing pretty well in regards to migraines and only had 1-2 in June…and then have had 7 in July. Thankfully I have plenty of meds, which means I can usually knock them out after a couple hours, but it’s not pleasant or fun. And I don’t know what I’ve done or changed to suddenly have so many!!


-t - Jul 28, 2025 8:11:44 am PDT #8487 of 8501
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

{{{sj}}} All the ~ma


JenP - Jul 28, 2025 8:14:04 am PDT #8488 of 8501

Oh, gosh, sending all the health ~ma your stepdad's way and calm ~ma to you, sj.

Laura, that is wild -- is that typical behavior for her? I don't even have the energy to throw a sustained tantrum, and I imagine she's got a few decades on me. Yikes. Hope you've been able to take a break from all family agita today. It's a lot.


Laura - Jul 28, 2025 8:29:29 am PDT #8489 of 8501
Our wings are not tired.

Screaming hysterically at her children is a relatively recent behavior. She refuses to address any of her fixable issues, and her kids are growing tired of it. At this point, they almost always let her leave a message and call her back when they can get comfy and listen to the rants. She is going to end up living with one of us, or in assisted living, but she refuses to take care of herself, and insists she would never consent to living with her kids. Parents!

Continuing to send recovery vibes, and calming vibes your way, sj.


sj - Jul 28, 2025 9:13:09 am PDT #8490 of 8501
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

It was a heart attack. He’s in stable condition.


Laura - Jul 28, 2025 9:17:50 am PDT #8491 of 8501
Our wings are not tired.

Stable is good. May his recovery be swift.


JenP - Jul 28, 2025 9:22:12 am PDT #8492 of 8501

Still sending all the good vibes, sj. Stable is a good word, yes.

Oof, that's tough, Laura.