We didn't have sex, if that's what you mean. That's all I do now, not have sex.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jun 27, 2025 5:46:08 am PDT #7971 of 7982
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That seems sensible, Calli. I hope something good shows up for you


Laura - Jun 27, 2025 6:16:52 am PDT #7972 of 7982
Our wings are not tired.

The travel saga was a triple header of annoyances. First, the dog was a bundle of anxiety the whole trip. Whining and pacing. Would not settle down. Didn’t eat for 2 days including in hotel. He did eat when we got to my cousin’s house late last night. Second, I could not get the Tesla chargers to work and my car and apps would direct me to them. Using their chargers involves attaching an adapter, telling the app which unit you are using and a bunch of steps. Tried this at two locations. The first one I was trying the wrong adapter. The 2nd one had no numbers on the stations so I had to wait until a person left so I could see which one changed from in use to available. The cables are heavy and the adapter involved pushing on a tough latch. After trying multiple times my thumb hurt so much and I was completely drenched in sweat from the 97 degrees in the full sun parking lot. Third, multiple backtracking because of having to find another charger. And multiple rerouting due to I75 issues probably due to recent storms. My car’s ETA was going up and down varying from 6:20 to 10:35. We arrived at 9.

In the end we arrived to the loving arms of cousin Linda who gave us a cold orzo and roasted vegetables salad with fresh mozzarella in a light vinaigrette and red wine.


meara - Jun 27, 2025 8:45:57 am PDT #7973 of 7982

Ok y’all I’ve gotten into spelling bee recently but wtf. Some words I try and it doesn’t accept and I’m shocked, but it wanted me to come up with “tomtit” the other day? wtf is tomtit???


Steph L. - Jun 27, 2025 8:53:51 am PDT #7974 of 7982
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

but it wanted me to come up with “tomtit” the other day? wtf is tomtit???

I always forget that's a word that Spelling Bee accepts (it's a bird). I also always forget "naan." And, yet again, it drives me nuts that the game accepts "gimme" but not "yeet."


Steph L. - Jun 27, 2025 8:58:18 am PDT #7975 of 7982
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Tim has a follow-up phone appointment with the ENT today to go over the results of the lab work on the fluid they sampled from his neck lump. I have mild jitters because I just want a definitive diagnosis of Weird But Benign. I know the ENT said last week that it was most likely just a benign cyst, but confirmation is good, you know? So anyway, a little more Weird-But-Benign~ma for him would be awesome.


Jessica - Jun 27, 2025 9:02:33 am PDT #7976 of 7982
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

And, yet again, it drives me nuts that the game accepts "gimme" but not "yeet."

The slang dictionary it's working with has some WEIRD gaps


Steph L. - Jun 27, 2025 10:23:37 am PDT #7977 of 7982
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Tim's Weird Neck Lump update: the lab tests on the fluid were oddly inconclusive — the equivalent of "yeah, this is weird and we don't know." So he's going to just have the Weird Lump excised completely and then it'll be biopsied. The ENT does still think the lump is benign, but nothing is conclusive until it's yoinked out. That should be mid-July.

These crumbling human meat sacks are a pain, but I guess they're the best thing we've got until we perfect the robot bodies for our brains in a jar.


-t - Jun 27, 2025 11:14:50 am PDT #7978 of 7982
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yoinking when not sure does seem like the right move. Weird-but-benign~ma set to continuous flow through July


Jessica - Jun 27, 2025 11:26:06 am PDT #7979 of 7982
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

It's always unnerving when the doctors are confused!! Weird-but-benign sounds good to me.


erikaj - Jun 27, 2025 11:55:13 am PDT #7980 of 7982
Always Anti-fascist!

All the vibes for Tep and Tim. Hec, reading your story...can't help being reminded of getting a filling in college(at a vastly-discounted disability rate I failed to appreciate except in retrospect) but I still needed some money. Long story short, I didn't get it till he saw the bill.Even though I wasn't gonna...lose it playing roulette or some shit and I am the first born and didn't sit around with my hand out all the livelong day--that is his late-in-life "baby" who's Emmett's age but discovered vocation in video games and his bong.(At least he's not a Proud Boy, though. small silver linings...) There is no universe where I could imagine my father sticking his neck out like that for anyone else--he barely does it for me.(Although he also totally liked my college boyfriend better than me, too. Like the gift that keeps on taking that he's been.)