Hey, preaching to the choir. I thought our Lady of the Perpetual Sea Breeze was the real deal until the Divine Miss J walked right through that door and right into my ass—which is where my heart is…physiologically. I could show you an x-ray.

Lorne ,'Time Bomb'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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meara - May 05, 2025 9:09:40 am PDT #7076 of 7084

I am trying to do my job but my internet keeps dropping and I don’t know why and it is very annoying. Argh. Monday morning is not the right time for this.


Steph L. - May 05, 2025 9:28:08 am PDT #7077 of 7084
I look more rad than Lutheranism

How is the recovery going, Teppy?

Pretty well. My wrist area is sore, but ice really helps. My fingers are still numb, but the surgeon warned me that could take months to resolve, because nerves do regrow, but they regrow verrrry slowly. Basically recovery has been uneventful, which is a real medical term that means "totally normal with no problems." You really don't want events of any kind during recovery.


Laura - May 05, 2025 10:30:57 am PDT #7078 of 7084
Our wings are not tired.

Uneventful, FTW!

In bro news, my brother remains very frail, but the chemo and radiation eliminated the tumor in his esophagus, and he is learning to eat again. He still has the feeding tube, but he had a slice of meatloaf and cottage cheese yesterday! He hadn't even been able to drink water, so this is great. It is super slow going, but he is delighted to eat real food. Bad news is that in one (or more) of his falls, he has torn his rotator cuff in a couple of areas. The surgeon says he isn't strong enough for surgery, so they gave him a shot for the pain and are immobilizing the arm. They also want to do surgery for the unrelated tumor in his lung, but that isn't urgent. Yes, since he is feeling a bit better, he is smoking more again. Sigh.


-t - May 05, 2025 10:34:36 am PDT #7079 of 7084
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yay uneventful! More things should be uneventful


Steph L. - May 05, 2025 11:11:18 am PDT #7080 of 7084
I look more rad than Lutheranism

he is learning to eat again. He still has the feeding tube, but he had a slice of meatloaf and cottage cheese yesterday! He hadn't even been able to drink water, so this is great. It is super slow going, but he is delighted to eat real food.

That's great news!


meara - May 05, 2025 11:37:01 am PDT #7081 of 7084

Yay eating, boo smoking. Though at a certain point I guess it’s worth being happy?

Yay uneventful, Teppy. May you continue to avoid events. Similar to all of us wishing to live in precedented times. Preferably ones where the precedent is not “Nazi Germany”


Beverly - May 05, 2025 2:01:05 pm PDT #7082 of 7084
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Calli, from bitter (and painful) experience I'll tell you, wear a shedload of sunscreen, and take a shirt or coverup. I was slathered in sunscreen reading in one of the chairs on our boat and then laid out on the back deck on my front, not realizing the sunscreen where my back touched the vinyl chair had all sweated off. I had a blistered outline of the chairback--so not fun.

I'm glad the evil hand isn't hurty, Tep. May the numbness subside after the pain meds are no longer needed.

Chamois shirt! So soft.

Echoing meara's yay eating, boo smoking! Meatloaf and cottage cheese sounds pretty tasty, but all I had for lunch was a yogurt.

The weather here has been glorious, but I'm starting to do my raindance. Mudslide season from snowmelt and spring rains is pretty much over, and I'd like to get the ground pretty soaked before wildfire season starts.

Also we have woods behind our house, and trees all over the surrounding neighborhood. The owls have been having nightly parties, or singalongs, or hootenanies (little bit of hoot, not too much nanny). Living in the middle of the owlalujah chorus, here.


Steph L. - May 05, 2025 2:23:53 pm PDT #7083 of 7084
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I'm glad the evil hand isn't hurty, Tep.

I don't think it's even a little bit evil. I should get a refund.


Calli - May 05, 2025 3:37:42 pm PDT #7084 of 7084
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

wear a shedload of sunscreen, and take a shirt or coverup

Oh, definitely (and ouch). I’ll learn from my red-haired dad’s example, too. He forgot that being on a boat meant that the sun would reflect back from a lower angle and had not sunscreened appropriately (i.e., he thought his hat would shade things it didn’t). Blisters for days.

I’m glad your hand is recovering well, Steph.

And I’m glad your brother is back to eating, Laura! As for smoking, I guess it’s good to feel up to doing things you shouldn’t.

I found out today that my department’s budget was cut by 25%, and there will definitely be layoffs happening over the next few months. Will I be among them? Hard to say. But at least I’m now physically in the location I want to work, so I hope that’ll make it easier to job hunt successfully around here, if it comes to it. But I’d rather it didn’t.


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