What'd you all order a dead guy for?

Jayne ,'The Message'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


erikaj - Apr 22, 2025 3:05:48 pm PDT #6917 of 7118
Always Anti-fascist!

I suppose she could do something else, somewhere else if she wanted or needed to. I was a transfer student, after all. I meant to say I hope she had the adventure she wanted.


-t - Apr 22, 2025 3:49:52 pm PDT #6918 of 7118
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Living in the dorms seems like a good idea. I hope the whole thing goes well for her!


Theodosia - Apr 23, 2025 2:55:54 am PDT #6919 of 7118
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

She's just had a taste of Living Away, at least. Transition to college is hard enough, so this may be the choice that works best for her.

I do wish she'd have considered something Boston-ish like Tufts or Emerson, oh well. At least she's not going to Texas...


-t - Apr 23, 2025 8:49:20 am PDT #6920 of 7118
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I very much want to see Bill and Ted Wait for Godot but I I just looked at ticket prices and remembered there would also be travel and lodging and I don't think I can do it. Somebody should, though


askye - Apr 23, 2025 10:12:57 am PDT #6921 of 7118
Thrive to spite them

Hopefully being in a familiar area but having The College Experience and living on campus will help her with her depression and grief and help her get ready to fly further from home.

Mom has been taking Ozempic but hasn't lost much weight. She has moved from eating out a lot and snacking to getting Hello Fresh (I think) meals that come with everything chopped up so she can do "assembly cooking" and those should be healthier.

I called Dad yesterday and he said he noticed I looked fitter. What he actually told mom was even though I'm still heavy he could see I'm getting fitter/more muscular. Dad has body image issues and weight issues and while he has never directly said anything to me about my weight I've heard how he talks about people. But those are his issues and not mine so I don't really think about it . He only ever says nice things about my appearance and with all my dad's faults I am really grateful about that.


Tom Scola - Apr 23, 2025 10:14:16 am PDT #6922 of 7118
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

Oh, hey, I’m on the Tumblr radar!


-t - Apr 23, 2025 11:23:06 am PDT #6923 of 7118
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I don't know what that means but I'm gonna guess...yay?!


Steph L. - Apr 23, 2025 12:45:07 pm PDT #6924 of 7118
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I am dying without ibuprofen. I knew my body was a crumbling horror, but I didn’t know it was being kept alive solely through the power of ibuprofen. Tylenol is a placebo scam.


-t - Apr 23, 2025 12:48:38 pm PDT #6925 of 7118
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm sorry, Tep. Maybe try a different placebo? Sugar? Singing the blues?


meara - Apr 23, 2025 12:54:38 pm PDT #6926 of 7118

Steph are you allowed naproxen? Or aspirin (guessing no for blood thinning reasons)? Or only Tylenol? Good luck?