Early: Where'd she go? Simon: I can't keep track of her when she's not incorporeally possessing a space ship. Don't look at me.

'Objects In Space'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Oct 01, 2026 10:31:07 am PDT #14175 of 14508
It's actually been a really hard year, when you stop and do the math. Eliot would cry, too, if it didn't take him seventy minutes of therapy, two cocktails, and a Sondheim medley before he can experience a human emotion through the haze of his PTSD.

Oh, yikes! Good to know, but eep

Right? Annoying that things that are helpful can also have downsides. I want all upsides!

Oh, since I'm oversharing about my medical deets, it's been almost 2 weeks since I started HRT, and my hot flashes have improved dramatically. I was having about 10 a day, and now I have like one a day, and some days I don't have any at all. That's freaking miraculous right there.


-t - Oct 01, 2026 10:36:37 am PDT #14176 of 14508
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Annoying that things that are helpful can also have downsides. I want all upsides!

So true! Tradeoffs bite.

Hooray for HRT! That sounds amazing!


Jessica - Oct 01, 2026 11:51:59 am PDT #14177 of 14508
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

My medical nerd side is fascinated with how opioids/opioid receptors interact with neurotransmitters. The side of me that is the actual guinea pig experiencing this medical journey is less fascinated and more stabby. Though it does honestly help to know that what's happening is a stew of chemical nonsense in my brain and not a relapse of depression.

I feel this every month with the power combo of PMS+perimenopause. (Isn't it so interesting that the chemicals in my brain are creating these meaningless feelings of TOTAL HOPELESSNESS and THINKING EVERYONE HATES ME and I need to QUIT MY JOB or MOVE TO A DIFFERENT COUNTRY wow science is so amazing (SOB))


-t - Oct 01, 2026 12:55:41 pm PDT #14178 of 14508
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Knowing there is chemical nonsense driving the bus is good, but it's still a bumpy ass ride


Laura - Oct 01, 2026 1:04:42 pm PDT #14179 of 14508
This too shall pass.

My medical nerd side is fascinated with how opioids/opioid receptors interact with neurotransmitters.

It is a likely good thing that I can't take any of the opioids, or any type of HRT either. Really every med I ever had to take didn't agree with me so I avoid them as much as possible. I take child dosages of those I need.

so I am also experiencing Sherman Potter withdrawal.

Understandable.

My big excitement for the day was having the luminary removed from my nails. They have been coated for 3 years and needed to take a breathing break. They are pretty sad and will be generously doused with coconut oil for a couple months while keeping them super short. They grow like weeds so I hope to go back to polish by Christmas.


-t - Oct 01, 2026 1:15:07 pm PDT #14180 of 14508
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

My niece says my mom's surgeon is OKing her dropping the opiate and just taking Tylenol and ibuprofen. She has really not been liking the side effects. Hopefully two days will not be enough to mess up her neurotransmitters too badly? Fingers crossed


dcp - Oct 01, 2026 1:17:16 pm PDT #14181 of 14508
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

chemical nonsense driving the bus

Hormone imbalance has been my primary anti-cancer treatment for over seven years now. It is still successful at keeping the cancer quiet, but it was hard to learn to ignore the 3 a.m. black dog when it conspires with the brain weasels.


-t - Oct 01, 2026 1:33:20 pm PDT #14182 of 14508
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, man, that's a steep price for something you really really need!


Jessica - Oct 01, 2026 3:00:25 pm PDT #14183 of 14508
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

My niece says my mom's surgeon is OKing her dropping the opiate and just taking Tylenol and ibuprofen. She has really not been liking the side effects.

I hope she does well on just OTC meds!


-t - Oct 01, 2026 3:03:41 pm PDT #14184 of 14508
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Me too! It's what she was taking before the surgery and it was working well. Hopefully there's not too much more pain to be dealt with now.