Jayne (Husband): Oh, I think you might wanna reconsider that last part. See, I married me a powerful ugly creature. Mal (Wife): How can you say that? How can you shame me in front of new people? Jayne (Husband): If I could make you purtier, I would. Mal (Wife): You are not the man I met a year ago.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


dcp - Sep 15, 2026 8:00:08 am PDT #13975 of 14044
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Yesterday UPS kept me hanging, waiting for delivery of a refill of one of my (anti-) cancer medications.

Initial delivery estimate was between 1230 and 1430. At 1400 it got pushed to 1530. Then it got pushed to 1730. Then 1830. Then 2000. Then 2130.

Watching the icon of the delivery truck on the moving map on the UPS app became more and more frustrating. So close, for so long, but not coming that last little bit to my location.

Finally at 2200 the delivery status regressed from "out for delivery" to "on the way" and "calculating new delivery estimate."

Today's estimated delivery is currently between 1430 and 1830. We'll see.

Still feeling leftover frustration more than any anticipation. Still feeling more anger than hope.

The situation is not dire. I ordered the refill with plenty of supply currently on-hand. But still: Grrrrr! Arrrgh!


Jessica - Sep 15, 2026 8:31:41 am PDT #13976 of 14044
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

It was five days from bid to close.

blinks in New York Real Estate


-t - Sep 15, 2026 8:51:09 am PDT #13977 of 14044
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Argh, dcp! I can’t believe how much they jerk you around with these deliveries! I mean I can but argh


Dana - Sep 15, 2026 8:58:20 am PDT #13978 of 14044
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Not just NY real estate. We've bought 5 houses and closing is always a month minimum. But again, that's with mortgage companies involved.


Laura - Sep 15, 2026 9:01:21 am PDT #13979 of 14044
Our wings are not tired.

It was five days from bid to close.

That is seriously impressive. Even with the cash purchase when we sold the Delray Beach house and cash purchase of our condo in Fort Lauderdale it was 4 weeks. Longer in previous transactions when mortgages were involved.

If I were Emmett, I would be so excited I would be sleeping there the very first day, on blankets on the floor if need be.

Very frustrating, DCP. I get mail-order meds, and the convenience and price are great, but the percentage of time stress is involved is also great.

-t, remember, the early bird gets the cinnamuffins

Teppy, how was sleep last night? How are you tolerating the collar?

Continued health~ma and life~ma to all.

Emmy's are in my watching queue. I have become very intolerant of ads and watch almost everything the next day. Sports may be the big exception, and on Mondays I watch Rachel live with my sister, but I am such an early-to-bed girl that I sometimes don't manage that either.


-t - Sep 15, 2026 9:45:02 am PDT #13980 of 14044
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

In this case the night owl got the muffins, but they brought them back to the nest in the first place so it’s all good.

Mom seems to be doing really well, slept better last night than since she got home and is stiff from sleeping so hard but not achy, which is great. My sister is en route from the airport, so I’ll be heading home at some point. That will be weird.


Steph L. - Sep 15, 2026 9:46:47 am PDT #13981 of 14044
That which does not kill you should RUN

Teppy, how was sleep last night?

Honestly pretty decent. Based on all the stuff I read about recovering at home, I had expected to sleep in the recliner, but I slept in bed just fine with a soft collar — basically a neck travel pillow [link] And I’m sure the drugs helped.

My neck muscles are sore today, but I knew to expect that. And my throat is sore, but I also knew to expect that. I honestly feel pretty good. But I also have a lot of napping on today’s schedule.

How are you tolerating the collar?

Oh! The surgeon said I don't need to wear it at home at all if I don't want to, since I only had 2 levels fused. The more vertebrae you have fused, the more important it is to wear the hard collar. He said I do need to wear it if I leave the house (which I don't anticipate doing, at least for the next several days), and I can wear it if I feel like I need a lot of support/stability. Right now it seems like everything is fine without it, so for now, no hard brace.


Laura - Sep 15, 2026 9:56:06 am PDT #13982 of 14044
Our wings are not tired.

Excellent progress, -t's mom and Teppy! Good to hear.

Fall is considering falling here in Otter Lake. It was 45F this morning! Color showing up here and there in the maples, but peak shouldn't be for another month. Still quite a few red leaves in my driveway.


-t - Sep 15, 2026 10:24:37 am PDT #13983 of 14044
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Good news, Tep!


Calli - Sep 15, 2026 5:46:20 pm PDT #13984 of 14044
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Congrats on speedy real estate, Hec.

I’m glad things are going well, Steph.

Lack of cinnamon rolls is whatever, but lack of them when you expect them is annoying. Now I want cinnamon rolls. Hmph.