Book: Where's the doctor? Not back yet? Zoe: (beat) We don't make him hurry for the little stuff. He'll be along. Book: He could hurry... a little.

'Safe'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Jul 28, 2026 5:04:53 pm PDT #13463 of 13627
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I'm sorry you're having a sucky week, sj.

Nothing much going on here. The cats are wrestling in the bathtub again.(Not a sentence you hear often)


erikaj - Jul 28, 2026 6:05:41 pm PDT #13464 of 13627
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

Can relate a little to that suck, sj. Wish I had a good answer or something beyond the Nora Ephron "it's all copy," thing.


sj - Jul 29, 2026 9:54:31 am PDT #13465 of 13627
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, everyone. Yes, the no food and no therapy was definitely not helping.


erikaj - Jul 29, 2026 11:33:38 am PDT #13466 of 13627
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

It never does. I spent way too much time on "batting practice" on a colleague's facebook page yesterday. I shouldn't get so involved in governor's races where I am not, but there is a family connection to Wisconsin, memories and whatnot, and it doesn't take much to activate "giving a fuck when it's not my turn" anyway, especially when one's hundred-year-old thoughts on poverty are summed up with "Well, if you're not *lazy*. I obviously had to show them how not lazy I am, and also how sad I was not to be hanging out with their mothers who were probably more fun and accepting overall.(Some remarks just don't deserve more attention than that...they really don't. Which is not what I expected social media, let alone meeting one of my heroes, to teach me, but it did. I don't get as angry when I do that, anymore. "Your mama" keeps my heart out of it.) It was a worthy effort. At the same time, I'm glad it's not the last thing I ever did. Right?


Karl - Jul 29, 2026 11:01:47 pm PDT #13467 of 13627
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

sj, this week using a walker to get around the apartment is reminding me a little too viscerally of all the bullshit the disabled people in my life have to deal with day in and day out. I say it's a wonder nobody's gone homicidal over it.

Solidarity and love, now and always.


sj - Jul 30, 2026 6:28:43 am PDT #13468 of 13627
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks Karl. I appreciate that. I have my car back today. The rain is trying to kill me, but at least I have my rescheduled therapy appointment and a coffee.


Laura - Jul 30, 2026 6:38:41 am PDT #13469 of 13627
Our wings are not tired.

It sounds like a better start to the day, sj. The universe needs to back off.

Rainy and chilly here. Long pants day and sweater day.

Two weeks ago my shopping cart assaulted me in the parking lot while unloading my groceries slamming into my toe. Finally, last night I got most of the toenail removed. Been soaking with epsom salt and slathering with antibiotic gel since it got infected too. Although it still doesn't look great at least it doesn't hurt anymore.

Bodies be annoying.


erikaj - Jul 30, 2026 1:07:45 pm PDT #13470 of 13627
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

When we do feel homicidal, we probably turn it on us, Karl.(Bringing the room up, as is my habit, but as the kids say "IYKYK". )Much as there is part of me that might love the thought of, like, veterans on mobility scooters cornering Andy Biggs in a dark alley and saying "Your money or your life." we probably couldn't put that posse together, Andy Biggs wouldn't have a political career if he didn't win the lottery, though. he has some damn nerve talking about bootstrapping anything.


Laura - Aug 01, 2026 5:08:34 am PDT #13471 of 13627
Our wings are not tired.

An abundance of happy birthday wishes for Shir today! I hope you are having a good day surrounded by love and laughter. May this year bring all you hope for and more.


lisah - Aug 01, 2026 9:18:14 am PDT #13472 of 13627
Punishingly Intricate

Happy birthday, Shir!!! Hope it’s a good one. You’ve been on my mind.