Faith: A kid. Angel's got a kid. Wesley: Connor. Faith: A teenage kid born last year. Wesley: I told you, he grew up in a hell dimension. Faith: Right. And what, Cordelia spent her last summer as… Wesley: A divine being. Faith: Uh-huh. Can I just ask--What the hell are you people doing?

'Why We Fight'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Apr 03, 2026 2:54:04 pm PDT #12219 of 12473
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

So, I have to have an MRI because something went wonky in my fucking neck when I was at the dentist — for real, the dentist leaned the chair back, and when the chair got to a certain angle, electric hot knife-y pain shot down both arms, and now I have ongoing electric burning nerve pain from my elbows to my hands, including the pinky, ring finger, and middle finger. I didn’t even do anything to cause this, damn it. I just leaned back in the dentist chair.

But it’s been several weeks and isn’t improving, so I saw Awesome Doctor today, and he was like, yep, that’s your neck, and you need an MRI so we know how to treat it. In the interim I have oral steroids, and I hope they help, because this burning nerve pain sucks. And long-term, I hope this can be fixed with PT and/or a steroid injection, because I really don’t want surgery on my cervical spine. (According to Google, 90% of cases are improve with non-surgical treatments. So the odds are good.)


-t - Apr 03, 2026 4:51:45 pm PDT #12220 of 12473
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That sounds bad, Tep. I’m glad you have awesome doctor

I don’t know what to say, Sheryl. I’m sorry it’s so hard. I think about you guys a lot.


Steph L. - Apr 03, 2026 4:58:38 pm PDT #12221 of 12473
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

That sounds bad, Tep. I’m glad you have awesome doctor

More annoying than bad, I guess (unless it really does require surgery). Nerve pain is just so...zappy, like electricity, which is weird as hell.


Calli - Apr 04, 2026 3:50:09 pm PDT #12222 of 12473
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

That sounds bothersome, Steph. Anytime I have issues with back or neck pain my body reminds me how much moving anything else affects them. I get the interconnectedness of all things, but does that have to start with our spinal columns?


Calli - Apr 04, 2026 6:20:42 pm PDT #12223 of 12473
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Almond butter granola: Here’s a question I saw two lawyers debating on Instagram. If a vampire policeman has a signed warrant, could he enter your house without you giving him permission? (The lawyers disagreed with each other on this.) [link]

What do we think? And would it vary with jurisdiction? The above was US-centric, but what about other countries that have warrants (and, presumably, vampires)?


dcp - Apr 04, 2026 6:25:57 pm PDT #12224 of 12473
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I say nay. The prohibition is outside the judge's scope.


-t - Apr 04, 2026 6:52:05 pm PDT #12225 of 12473
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Agreed, although if a non-vampire cop can enter with the warrant and invite the vampire in I guess that might work?


kat - Apr 04, 2026 6:59:35 pm PDT #12226 of 12473
"The thing about dorks is we stick together. Mostly for gaming purposes but also because it wards off jocks, gutter clowns and other Stephen King-like threats." - Lauren Okie

Hmm... I say no. A warrant is definitely not an invite from the resident.

(One reason I’m selfishly glad women’s sports aren’t more popular…I couldn’t easily afford things like the World Cup if it was men’s pricing!)

All of our tickets are for women's events!

Grace and I went with a friend to see Eileen Harris Norton's collection of art a gallery downtown. I'm sort of obsessed with Harris Norton. I love that she started collecting when she was still a teacher (she talks about going to May Company and how they had a museum on the third floor. She bought a print from Ruth Waddy. I'm blown away with how many beautiful pieces she owns.


Tom Scola - Apr 05, 2026 12:02:05 am PDT #12227 of 12473
They pay me in WOIMS

Surely they must have answered that question at some point on Forever Knight?


Matt the Bruins fan - Apr 05, 2026 8:40:32 am PDT #12228 of 12473
You have to remember that being a 5-time Olympic medalist means Hilary Knight has been playing hockey at an elite level at least 16 years. It's impossible for her to be a teenage girl less than 16 years old, thus the President's complete lack of interest.

I don't think they had the invitation trope on Forever Knight. The weekly murderous vampire usually wasn't killing people out on the streets.