No, no, no, sir. No more chick pit for you. Come on.

Riley ,'Lessons'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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quester - Mar 04, 2026 7:26:43 pm PST #11847 of 11848
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Hi all! Just popped in to see if Nilly & Shir had posted. So glad to hear from both of you!

then I have had a very strange day.

I had a root canal down this morning. Not too bad, the tooth was dead under it's crown, so the dentist took all the death residue out after drilling a hole in the crown. then he patched the crown. It's still a bit tender for chewing but this will pass.

Just as I was checking out from the dentist, I got a phone call from the Netherlands. It was really from HR, they left a message and I called them back on a US line. My job is being discontinued. It ends at the end of April. Technically it's not a firing thing, because I can apply for another position in the company.

I have been thinking more and more lately about retiring. I'm 70, and can't keep up with the pace anymore. I told the person who called me about the job ending that I have been thinking about retiring any way.

She advised me to go through the separation process because it's a good amount of money I get just for leaving semi-voluntarily. and then go through the retirement process. this is something I will be asking more questions about.

Frankly, this is almost a blessing. But, the reason I have kept working is because of a large credit card debt. I could use some advice if anyone has any.

It's one card, and I have been paying back a small loan since 2009. it took me a long time to get a job that would allow me to pay more off. but it hasn't been enough. I've been paying the card $500.00 a month for years. and the total of the fees & interest have blown up to around $20K. So that's the big problem I have been stupid about for years.

I already collect SS, and that all goes into savings. I have a small 401K, and an undetermined Pension.

I've asked my brother and sister about financial advisement, and they came up with no suggestions. I haven't told them about the debt. None of their business. it's my problem to deal with.

I also want a rebate on all the fees and interest. I haven't used the card since the loan. I feel like they owe me some of it back but that is just wishful thinking.

I had to tell someone about this, so, as usual, my dears, it had to be you. I haven't' made a single meat space friend since I moved here. My brother and the one of my sisters live hear, but I don't trust them anymore. Another long story.

Thank you for being here, so I do have somewhere to go to rant about this. I have to sign off soon. Work in the morning.


-t - Mar 04, 2026 8:21:10 pm PST #11848 of 11848
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Progressive Dumpling Dinner describes it pretty well! It was nice, though, glad I went. Infinitely more driving than I usually do on a Wednesday, though, and at least double my normal commute, so now I’m tired. But full of yummy dumplings. No, I feel compelled to clarify, roots. As far as I know.

{{{quester}}} I have no advice, but I am hoping there is something you can do to get out from under that. And I’m sorry you don’t trust your siblings, that can’t feel good.


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