(((askye)))
Wow, you've really mastered the power of positive giving-up.
Cordelia ,'End of Days'
Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
-t - Oct 22, 2021 6:25:16 pm PDT #10141 of 29994
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
sj - Oct 22, 2021 6:52:58 pm PDT #10142 of 29994
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
{{{{{askye}}}}} I'm sorry for your loss.
Sheryl - Oct 22, 2021 6:56:45 pm PDT #10143 of 29994
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
I’m sorry for your loss, askye.
Kate P. - Oct 22, 2021 7:41:04 pm PDT #10144 of 29994
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
It's lucky indeed that she was a part of your life for so long, askye, and I'm sorry that she's gone now.
Topic!Cindy - Oct 22, 2021 8:15:56 pm PDT #10145 of 29994
What is even happening?
I'm so sorry for your loss, askye.
askye - Oct 22, 2021 8:49:30 pm PDT #10146 of 29994
Thrive to spite them
Thank you. At one point my uncle and aunt were talking about how even though they knew this was going to happen and were prepared it still was unexpected in ways.
And I ended up saying "It's always sudden." And someone agreed.
My dad wasn't there. We had gone fishing (and actually got a call while fishing that she was slipping away) and originally wasn't going to come because he was tired. Once I realized it was really the end I called him and he came but then she slipped away before he got there.
There will be a grave side service either Wed or Thurday with immediate family & direct descendants & families. And ex wives if you include my mom and an aunt...who I don't consider an ex aunt.
And then a celebration of life later with everyone.
I brought 2 dresses down, a colorful sundress that I love and get compliments on and a black dress that is ok. I think I'm going to wear the colorful dress. I don't know if I'll be the only one in color. There is a necklace that Grandma bought when we were on our Tour of UK. My aunt gave it to me tonight and I went to put it on and the clasp broke off. I wanted to wear it and I'm still going to see if I can.
I called work this afternoon to give them a heads up. The HR manager took me off the schedule for this week. I'm going to call tomorrow and let them know and say if I can keep the rest of the week and be back Sunday.
lisah - Oct 22, 2021 8:58:00 pm PDT #10147 of 29994
Punishingly Intricate
I'm so sorry, askye. I'm glad you are with your family, though.
Sophia Brooks - Oct 22, 2021 9:27:42 pm PDT #10148 of 29994
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here
I am so sorry askye. I am glad you are there already and you got to see her. Colorful is good!
Sophia Brooks - Oct 22, 2021 9:29:21 pm PDT #10149 of 29994
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here
With the necklace, could you somehow tie it together around your neck with yarn or string or even dental floss?
askye - Oct 23, 2021 4:53:16 am PDT #10150 of 29994
Thrive to spite them
Sophia I think so . The clasp just broke in half so it's not missing any chains or anything. I might be able to use a small safety pin to hold it together.
I have to say last night had plenty of tears but there was way more laughter. We told funny stories about Grandma and then various family members and talked about her sense of humor.