I can beat up demons until the cows come home, and then I can beat up the cows.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Matt the Bruins fan - Nov 12, 2015 7:32:36 am PST #9006 of 30003
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

That's the kind of question I'd be rattling off "867-5309" in response to. You don't want an earworm, learn to explain what exactly it is you're asking about.


-t - Nov 12, 2015 7:59:19 am PST #9007 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I like that answer.

Went for a walk and that helped my headache, but now that i am back inside it's coming back. I just need to work outside today, clearly.


Sophia Brooks - Nov 12, 2015 8:14:42 am PST #9008 of 30003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

24601!!!!!!


Connie Neil - Nov 12, 2015 8:37:15 am PST #9009 of 30003
brillig

Just had the yearly benefits meeting. Health insurance will not be going up, though apparently Obamacare is responsible for everyone else's premiums going up. This guy has dissed Obamacare every year since it came out, I should throw a spitball at him. Apparently, my company's dedication to wellness programs has kept our premiums down, as our costs have gone down. "And," I thought to myself, "the million-plus dollars that went to try and save my husband is probably off the books, too, plus all the maintenance that went into him is over." Last year they mentioned the "one or two expensive cases we're covering for your company, so you can count on our coverage." I feel like saying something about how much that hurt to have brought up, even though there was nothing identifying about it, but that seems so over-sensitive. Plus, it might actually be reassuring to someone who's contemplating such expensive care. The world will continue to find ways to kick me in the head, I can't expect to dodge them all.


Steph L. - Nov 12, 2015 8:41:26 am PST #9010 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Last year they mentioned the "one or two expensive cases we're covering for your company, so you can count on our coverage." I feel like saying something about how much that hurt to have brought up, even though there was nothing identifying about it, but that seems so over-sensitive.

Actually, it's never appropriate to say something like that. That's how health insurance works, and companies know that -- you get some people who never use it, a lot who have things like strep throat and yearly physicals, a handful with broken bones and common surgeries, and then a tiny amount with things like cancer or other expensive conditions. That's the point behind group insurance, and your company/insurance agent damn well knows it, so it's not okay to refer to employees (or their family members) with "expensive conditions."


Burrell - Nov 12, 2015 9:14:24 am PST #9011 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Actually, it's never appropriate to say something like that.

Right


Steph L. - Nov 12, 2015 9:24:30 am PST #9012 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

My old company's insurance agent was the actual worst. He would tell us about his other client's medical claims. WHAT THE FUCK MAN MEET HIPAA. He insulted us to our faces and was a general dick. He once shouted at me on the phone and told me I could get arrested for violating HIPAA by telling our HR person about my own health issue. No, really.

And he was our insurance guy for at least 15 years if not longer. I assume we kept him on because he either had serious blackmail material on the owner or he was extremely inexpensive for the company.


meara - Nov 12, 2015 9:27:59 am PST #9013 of 30003

Was it AOL that got reamed for claiming they had to raise prices because someone had a premature baby? They got shit for that and it was righteous.


meara - Nov 12, 2015 9:29:23 am PST #9014 of 30003

Yes it was AOL:

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SuziQ - Nov 12, 2015 12:19:24 pm PST #9015 of 30003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Has anyone here gotten a cranial sacral massage? Gonna try this in the morning to get some relief from my head.