We had plans to gather for next year's eclipse at a site in totality near my Uncle Frank's childhood home. Uncle Ken was even going to be there. Now they're both dead. I dunno.
So...email 2 coworkers not in my branch but that I've worked significant projects with (including one who moved to be a deputy chief engineer) asking if they are willing to be references, not knowing yet if references will be requested? Yea or nay? Vetting/interview/offer will include my boss, fellow branch folk would be really conflicty. From personal email to their work. (Though I'd prefer to do it f2f, but that happening is not guaranteed.)
> ...next year there's a solar eclipse in August...I think I'll make plans....
Part of me wants to plan a watch party with local family (we are in the path of totality) but part of me wants to take some vacation time and travel to somewhere cooler, like Jackson WY.
I have seen several partial solar eclipses, but never a total solar eclipse. I'm looking forward to it very much.
So the question is, what do I do? If I'm invited to campus, how do I address this concern? Because their dishonesty makes me a lot less interested in the job now, and I think they should know that. But I want to tell them so professionally.
flea, perhaps they weren't at liberty to disclose? Also, if you inform them of what you have learned, expect them to ask you for your source. What would you say?
It was posted on a public section of the library web site. So it wasn't a secret, although if my friend hadn't seen it and sent it to me I might not have realized this the day it happened.
Huh. I do think that deserves questioning but I don't know how you should do it, flea. Maybe the fact that this closure is so far along had them thinking it was a done deal and they were answering you about future closures after this one? It's definitely weird, but perhaps not terrible.Can you ask for clarification of their answer in light of your new (new to you) specific knowledge, maybe? Frame it that the answer you got from them is confusing considering the closure?
I say yea, sarameg. Always good to have references ready to go, and to warn them you'll need them.
dcp, I am super jealous that you have the option of staying put and seeing the eclipse from home. I like traveling well enough, but I looove staying home.
Dana, I'm so sorry.
I'm eating my first healthy meal in a while: roasted veggies with TJ's 10-minute farro. Pretty tasty!
flea, I think there's no way you cannot ask them about it. If it's public, the source is irrelevant. But as AAM says, position yourself as "confused" rather than challenging. Because you are hardly the only interviewee they will be misrepresenting the situation to.
... also, why are they interviewing classical librarians if they know the plan is to close the classics library? Is this some political thing?
My nose hurts. Bah.
Aaaand done. One is nbd, I've worked with her the whole time. New deputy engineer? We've had 3 years of intense interaction before her promotion and I loved her, but we don't have the personal so much.
And my mom just had a big meltdown cry on the phone with dad and I want to call her but she's asked we don't and I get that, but uhg.
And deputy chief engineer just replied with an "ABSOLUTELY!"
This is why I fight for this job despite CSRA/CSC fucking me over.
(I know the other is asleep now.)
I think I might cry in gratitude.
That seems like a right response.
