Occasionally I'm callous and strange.

Willow ,'The Killer In Me'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Feb 22, 2016 7:19:13 am PST #16023 of 30003
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Oh Steph, you are what he has right now. I'm so sorry that this is awful and tiresome and you feel justifiably overwhelmed. Luckily time will keep moving and you'll get through this as terrible as it is. You don't have to think of the whole week. Just make it to the next hour...look 2 minutes ahead and not multiple days. You'll do it because you have to do it.

I am so very sorry.


Zenkitty - Feb 22, 2016 7:22:57 am PST #16024 of 30003
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Oh, Steph. Good luck and ~ma getting him to the hospital. I hope he cooperates. A lot of people are with you in spirit, you can get through it. You're a good person, and you're just what he needs right now.


Dana - Feb 22, 2016 7:22:59 am PST #16025 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Oh, my god, Steph. That is insanely unfair and a super crappy night on top of all your stress.


Fred Pete - Feb 22, 2016 7:24:43 am PST #16026 of 30003
Ann, that's a ferret.

Good luck, Steph. You are going above and beyond what anyone should have to.


Steph L. - Feb 22, 2016 7:49:40 am PST #16027 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

That is insanely unfair and a super crappy night on top of all your stress.

I did get carrot cake Hershey's Kisses and other (comparatively) cheap gluten-free stuff at the Wal-Mart, so there's that. (I don't shop at Wal-Mart of my own volition, but since I was there last night on behalf of my brother -- and since the carrot cake Hershey's Kisses are only available at Wal-Mart -- you bet I got stuff).

Update: his blood pressure is back down to normal, so that's a good thing. He's cheerfully making some eggs right now.


meara - Feb 22, 2016 7:51:21 am PST #16028 of 30003

Ugh, what a nightmare, Steph. I hope he lets you help him. :(


Jesse - Feb 22, 2016 7:57:13 am PST #16029 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Holy shit, Steph. Here's hoping he goes in to treatment sooner rather than later.


Steph L. - Feb 22, 2016 8:13:26 am PST #16030 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Yeah, seriously. I feel less worried now that his blood pressure is normal (less worried in the sense that there's one less thing that could be catastrophic; I'm still worried in a general sense), but he needs more help than just me making sure he only drinks 1 beer every 90 minutes. He's not eating, for one thing. I'm not going to make him eat if it will make him sick, but if it's going to make him sick, he needs to be in the hospital.


Laura - Feb 22, 2016 8:22:08 am PST #16031 of 30003
Our wings are not tired.

Oh Steph, sending lots of strength and love your way. He is so fortunate to have you there.


sj - Feb 22, 2016 8:22:42 am PST #16032 of 30003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Teppy, that's just so difficult. I'm sorry that this is falling on you.