Like any of that's enough to fight the Dark Master. Bator.

Xander ,'Lessons'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Feb 22, 2016 8:13:26 am PST #16030 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Yeah, seriously. I feel less worried now that his blood pressure is normal (less worried in the sense that there's one less thing that could be catastrophic; I'm still worried in a general sense), but he needs more help than just me making sure he only drinks 1 beer every 90 minutes. He's not eating, for one thing. I'm not going to make him eat if it will make him sick, but if it's going to make him sick, he needs to be in the hospital.


Laura - Feb 22, 2016 8:22:08 am PST #16031 of 30003
Our wings are not tired.

Oh Steph, sending lots of strength and love your way. He is so fortunate to have you there.


sj - Feb 22, 2016 8:22:42 am PST #16032 of 30003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Teppy, that's just so difficult. I'm sorry that this is falling on you.


Burrell - Feb 22, 2016 8:24:12 am PST #16033 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Steph, I am so sorry that your brother is going through this, and I'm so sorry that you are going through this. And thank God you are there to go through it with him. I hope he gets into treatment soon.

As for his wife, one of the hardest things about going through a crisis is having to deal with other people's failure to deal with it. I wish she was there to help you.


-t - Feb 22, 2016 8:29:24 am PST #16034 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I would like to sleep all day or barring that, eat all the cheese.

Sign me up!

Hang in there, Steph. I'm hoping you can get him under medical care ASAP, alcohol withdrawal is fucking scary.


-t - Feb 22, 2016 8:32:17 am PST #16035 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I don't want to say "don't be mad at his wife" because you are allowed to be angry at anything and everything, Tep, but I do want to say that her not choosing to rush home is valid. You don't know everything that's gone into that decision.


-t - Feb 22, 2016 8:33:26 am PST #16036 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

On a completely different note - I got that employee of the month thing for January. So that's feels pretty good.


Sue - Feb 22, 2016 8:34:02 am PST #16037 of 30003
hip deep in pie

Oh man, Steph. Hang in there. I am so glad you're there for him.

In other TV news, Downton! My only comment about Tom Branson is: "I am not having sex with Spike, but I'm starting to think that you might be."

You are not wrong, Jesse: [link] (ETA: That link is slightly spoilery for last night's Downton.)

They make a v. pretty couple.


SuziQ - Feb 22, 2016 9:15:19 am PST #16038 of 30003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Good going -t!!!!

Teppy, I'm hoping the next few days go as easy as possible. I'm headed to Utah tomorrow/Wednesday but if you are still in Colorado when I get back, I'd love to treat you to dinner or some kind of break.


Steph L. - Feb 22, 2016 9:25:34 am PST #16039 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I do want to say that her not choosing to rush home is valid. You don't know everything that's gone into that decision.

That's definitely true. And she lives with this every day and I don't.

I got that employee of the month thing for January. So that's feels pretty good.

So cool!