Teppy, how completely awful. I'm so sorry, and I'm vibing hard for peace to your friend's spirit and swift justice for whoever did this to her.
msbelle, that's rage-inducing.
You can't open the book of my life and jump in the middle. Like woman, I'm a mystery.
Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'
Natter 74: Ready or Not
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
JZ - Jan 27, 2016 11:25:48 am PST #14293 of 30003
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
Atropa - Jan 27, 2016 11:27:35 am PST #14294 of 30003
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Oh no. Steph, I'm so sorry. How awful.
EpicTangent - Jan 27, 2016 12:10:30 pm PST #14295 of 30003
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
I'm so sorry, Steph, that's horrible.
And that is some bullshit, msbelle. Following the process is all you can do.
And is, indeed, the reason that we write the process down in the first place. No wonder you're upset.
Dana - Jan 27, 2016 12:19:19 pm PST #14296 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
I'm sorry, Steph. It's hard to comprehend that.
In stupid news, I'm on a call with my coworker and she's droning on, and I'm having a hell of a time staying awake.
Liese S. - Jan 27, 2016 12:36:29 pm PST #14297 of 30003
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
That's awful.
flea - Jan 27, 2016 12:37:30 pm PST #14298 of 30003
information libertarian
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry Steph.
Anne W. - Jan 27, 2016 12:42:40 pm PST #14299 of 30003
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
Steph, I have no words. I am so sorry. Much love to you and everyone who loved her.
Steph L. - Jan 27, 2016 12:43:51 pm PST #14300 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I found out a little more, which is still bad, but in a different way. The background is that she was assaulted over the weekend, but was at her home on Sunday. Her family found her body Monday. Autopsy results showed painkillers in her system, but they had been prescribed for her; what was in her bloodstream was a higher dose than had been prescribed, but not super high. So it may have been an accidental overdose, which is a whole other kind of horrible. It also might have been intentional, but there was no note or anything, so it's not conclusive.
The family wants a private service and burial, so our friends will have a memorial service later.
I'm glad she wasn't murdered, but...damn. My heart hurts. (Not like Lang heart attack pain. Metaphorically.)
meara - Jan 27, 2016 12:45:08 pm PST #14301 of 30003
Oh no. That she was attacked was bad enough. And if it was an accidental overdose...man.
Steph L. - Jan 27, 2016 12:47:01 pm PST #14302 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Right? I don't know what to think. I feel like an intentional overdose would have been the whole bottle. It sounds like an accident, like she forgot how much she took, or her tolerance was really high so she took more, or something.