It's not like she blew me off. She just left with another guy, that's all.

Riley ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jan 19, 2016 2:57:53 pm PST #13713 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Our across the street neighbor saw a drug deal in front of our house on Friday. Car to car deals are all over the *lace in this neighborhood right now. It's quiet, and, exce*t for the visiting drug dealers and clients, safe - they're using the back residential streets.

That sounds like us, too. Lots of car to car deals on the side streets.

Something I've learned since living in New Orleans - if you have a professional dealer, it's in his or her best interest to keep the business area crime free. This can be useful.

I don't think our dealers are that smart.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 19, 2016 3:05:58 pm PST #13714 of 30003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I don't think our dealers are that smart.

Dealers that use their product generally aren't.


Connie Neil - Jan 19, 2016 3:11:45 pm PST #13715 of 30003
brillig

The background of this last call I took was like an episode of Deadwood. I don't think he called his buddy a cocksucker, but the rest of the vocabulary was similar.


Hil R. - Jan 19, 2016 3:17:17 pm PST #13716 of 30003
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm so sorry, Steph.


Jesse - Jan 19, 2016 3:23:33 pm PST #13717 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Something I've learned since living in New Orleans - if you have a professional dealer, it's in his or her best interest to keep the business area crime free. This can be useful.

I banked on that when I lived in DC -- I was pretty sure I was safe on this one dark street when the regular dealer was also there.


sarameg - Jan 19, 2016 3:46:31 pm PST #13718 of 30003

Well, the dealers up the street don't have a damned impact on the nuisance crime around here (I just found out about them. Explains some things I've seen. And they don't deal here on weekends-that's when the grandmother is home....)

Fuck, looks like I need to do my weekend shopping...tomorrow, because the odds of getting whomped this Friday/Saturday are increasing. Better to go in the middle of the day. And stock up on greens, since my spinach people won't come to market if it gets bad. Uhg. Might as well stock up on baking supplies (I have enough chocolate chips) and cheese and hummus for neighborly commoiserating.


Dana - Jan 19, 2016 3:48:13 pm PST #13719 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I'm sorry about your cousin, Steph.


Juliebird - Jan 19, 2016 3:49:29 pm PST #13720 of 30003
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

Still in purgatory with car insurance and getting paid for my totalled car. I'm using the company truck currently, but I don't like putting wear in it (it's old) and the gas is $10 a day just getting to and from work. And parking the beast is a chore. And when the ED comes back he may declare I can't use it for personal reasons anymore, which would be totally valid, even though I have the blessing of bossman. Cheapest rental would be $150 a week (don't know what the discount from my insurance would be yet). Both those two options get me door to door service and grocery runs and other errands. Other option is I get a weekly train pass at $30 unlimited trips, cheapest option, but no door to door service, no grocery trips or errands, and three miles to walk in 20 to 30 degree weather, which also means leave an hour early in the morning and an hour later in the evening, which means less time to take care of home life and and definitely means I can't go out and check out potential new cars after hours.

Math and logistics of living life and searching for a new car says I need to keep abusing the company truck.


lisah - Jan 19, 2016 4:09:41 pm PST #13721 of 30003
Punishingly Intricate

Oooh I just remembered that we have some cookie dough from cookie swap in the freezer downstairs that we can bake up for the storm! Also a lot of pork in that freezer. (Plus live a block from the grocery store so don't really worry about getting so snowed in we can't get food.)

eta Also, a lot of booze in the house.


beekaytee - Jan 19, 2016 4:10:39 pm PST #13722 of 30003
Compassionately intolerant

if you have a professional dealer, it's in his or her best interest to keep the business area crime free.

I've had two experiences in DC where the corner dealer was super helpful regarding non-drug related crime.

Steph, I'm am so sorry for your loss.