Ben: I didn't ask for any of this. I just want to be normal. Gronx: I wanted to be an underwear model. We play the hand we're dealt.

'Touched'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Dec 24, 2015 6:55:36 am PST #12095 of 30003
Our wings are not tired.

Typo, I really wish that 2016 will be much kinder to you.


lisah - Dec 24, 2015 7:00:21 am PST #12096 of 30003
Punishingly Intricate

Knowing people that come out the other side so successfully is what helps me hold on when looking at my own 20somethings

For real. One of the smartest, funniest, best writers I know is, at 40, starting undergrad classes this winter.


tommyrot - Dec 24, 2015 7:23:54 am PST #12097 of 30003
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Wow, amyth, sorry college was such a difficult experience for you.

I suffered from depression for the first time when I was in college. I was obsessed with wanting a relationship, which never happened. I also made almost no friends and was very lonely.

Long story short, I finally started partying during what was supposed to be my final semester, and flunked a class. As a result, my job offer for an actuarial position was withdrawn, and I ended up floundering around for nine years while working a series of low-paying jobs. I couldn't pay my student loans so the interest eventually doubled what I owed.

I finally payed off my loans about four years ago.


askye - Dec 24, 2015 7:27:38 am PST #12098 of 30003
Thrive to spite them

I LDB'D myself making a Playlist on spotify and there was Jim Hendrix's medley of Little Drummer Boy, Silent Night, and Auld Lang Sane and I had to check it out. I could have waited a few days but I might as well enD this in style.


Dana - Dec 24, 2015 7:31:37 am PST #12099 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

That's a huge accomplishment, amyth.


msbelle - Dec 24, 2015 7:33:44 am PST #12100 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Loves all the love to amyth. Brave and strong and resilient.


Lee - Dec 24, 2015 7:37:12 am PST #12101 of 30003
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

It really is.

So far today, I have had two things to do, work wise, and I am beginning to wonder if someone hacked the federal government, because neither the 9th Circuit or Public PAIR are working.


Laura - Dec 24, 2015 8:00:55 am PST #12102 of 30003
Our wings are not tired.

People keep texting and emailing me work stuff and I just want to tell them all to go home.


Connie Neil - Dec 24, 2015 8:33:48 am PST #12103 of 30003
brillig

And the Victorian era "Sherlock" that PBS has been teasing me with for weeks will air on Jan. 1.


brenda m - Dec 24, 2015 8:40:05 am PST #12104 of 30003
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Wow, amyth, sorry college was such a difficult experience for you.

So much this.

I got rusticated after my first year (which my overly well read self found secretly charming), took a year off and got a volunteer gig working with refugees for a year. Which changed my life, but not in ways that prevented me from going back and failing out all over again. Went back to Milwaukee and eventually took a few non-credit classes at UWM and Marquette, earned probationary status at Marquette, and eventually was able to transfer to McGill. In my case it was mostly down to immaturity and depression/anxiety.

I got my shit together eventually, but the d/a induced behaviors are still things I struggle with all the time