Well some friends of Buffy played a funny joke and they took her stuff and now she wants us to help get it back from her friends who sleep all day and have no tans.

Xander ,'Lessons'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Beverly - Nov 23, 2025 2:09:29 pm PST #3185 of 3203
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Yes.


meara - Dec 13, 2025 8:35:14 pm PST #3186 of 3203

Ugh it’s shitty how many buffistas this thread now stands for. Do not want!


Pix - Dec 14, 2025 12:29:45 am PST #3187 of 3203
The status is NOT quo.

I was just thinking that.


Laura - Dec 14, 2025 5:57:33 am PST #3188 of 3203
Our wings are not tired.

Far too many, but I like having a spot to come to when I see something or hear something that reminds me of one of our loved ones. It happens often, and we should share these moments.


DavidS - Dec 14, 2025 9:01:23 am PST #3189 of 3203
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Far too many, but I like having a spot to come to when I see something or hear something that reminds me of one of our loved ones. It happens often, and we should share these moments.

On that note, I'll say that I had Ouise as my Secret Santa one year and I sent her the Edward Gorey Cardboard Dracula Theater, and I think of her every time I see it for sale at Borderland Books. And I remember the sweet remembrances of the Haligonians talking about listening to her sing at her choir even as she neared the end.


sj - Dec 15, 2025 7:41:33 am PST #3190 of 3203
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I keep having dreams of f2f gatherings with Buffistas. I miss all of you that I don’t get to see in person or online as much anymore, and I hate how many wonderful people we’ve lost.


Vortex - Dec 16, 2025 10:07:14 pm PST #3191 of 3203
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

As much as I hate this thread has to exist, I love the space to mourn, celebrate, and remember our family. I love this thread and the people that this board has brought into my life, so I can't ever be sad that we get a space to celebrate the people that mean so much to us.


erikaj - Dec 19, 2025 1:02:00 pm PST #3192 of 3203
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

I think this has to be here. "No lies between us." The Wire--Ray Cole's wake. [link]


erikaj - Dec 28, 2025 11:19:45 am PST #3193 of 3203
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

How brilliant was the Bojack Horseman with his mother's funeral?1ETA: more info. [link] I really laughed and cried, about a talking horse. Never expected that. Or to be sitting there thinking that I like churros, but my mother doesn't. Or that I thought Becker was fine, but not much better than fine, so maybe the horsey TV star had a good eyes. It might be like the fruitpunch speech, for parents.


brenda m - Jan 02, 2026 8:42:02 am PST #3194 of 3203
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I found one of ita’s old Supernatural T-shirts when I was going through a drawer at the Cabin the other day. I’m a long way from fitting into it right now, but it’s not going anywhere.