See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.

Oz ,'First Date'


Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


SuziQ - Jan 31, 2014 6:54:53 am PST #18631 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

In some counter-cancer news, my friend who had thyroid surgery, due to tumors that were thought to be cancerous, got her biopsy results. No cancer!

My doc called this morning to check on me and I told him I still had a lot if pain. He said today will be bad pain wise but I should see improvement starting tomorrow. He doesn't want to prescribe anything heavier because then I'm a fall risk and he does want me up and moving occasionally. I gotta suck it up and get through the day. Fun.


msbelle - Jan 31, 2014 6:56:00 am PST #18632 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

OH work people. Now you've done made me get my serious worker girl pants on. If I was the Patriarchy I'd say Bitchy Bossy Pants, but hells no - Powerful Take Charge Pants, thank you very much.


Amy - Jan 31, 2014 6:56:55 am PST #18633 of 30000
Because books.

If you supplement with ibuprofen all day, it might help, Suzi. How nice that he called, though! And good news about your friend.


Aims - Jan 31, 2014 7:13:21 am PST #18634 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Dromedaries are the single hump variety, right?

Yep!!


msbelle - Jan 31, 2014 7:19:22 am PST #18635 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

OUR CAMEL EXPERT!


Aims - Jan 31, 2014 7:21:54 am PST #18636 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

That's me!


Amy - Jan 31, 2014 7:23:06 am PST #18637 of 30000
Because books.

One of my English teacher buddies said it's like a cheaper Great Gatsby and I added but with likeable characters.

I did like Katey, although I feel like he could have done more with her childhood -- and sort of implied he would at the beginning. Wallace's death was sad -- I really liked him.


Jesse - Jan 31, 2014 8:01:04 am PST #18638 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I wanted to know more about her in general -- I think all of my issues with the book would have been solved by taking it out of the first person.


meara - Jan 31, 2014 8:35:55 am PST #18639 of 30000

That's how you made less, right? Are 401K contributions pre-tax? Now I forget

No, I actually made less total (only about $500 less) before taxes/etc, because in 2012 I got a signing bonus for my new job. I hadn't realized it was enough to make up the difference between my old job and the new one! But I also had a much small AGI overall because of how much (pre-tax) I put in my 401k. I didn't start putting money in my 401k until maybe 25? And was only putting the matching (3% or whatever) until recently--last year I bumped it up to 12% of my salary (figuring plus 3% matched by company is 15!). I worry I will want to retire and not have any money to do it with. Figuring social security will be bust by that age (plus they keep upping when I could get it--I don't want to work until 70!)

Thanks for reminding me to contribute to my Roth IRA, Natter.

See, and that's something I have never done, make an IRA! I feel like for all that I'm OK at not spending more than I make, I'm actually really bad at the whole money thing in general.


shrift - Jan 31, 2014 8:52:58 am PST #18640 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I failed at contributing to a 401k for most of my 20s. I did contract work for a while and I don't think it was an option, so I think I ignored it when I finally was given the option because I didn't really know what to do.

Oh, younger self. Why.

These days, I built up my emergency savings account and started doing a small monthly contribution, I max out my generous 401k match and contribution limit, and I max out my Roth IRA contribution limit. Because I can right now and I have a lot of catching up to do.

I know there's more investing I could do, but I don't like a lot of risk. I don't even like gambling in Vegas.