Reavers ain't men. Or they forgot how to be. Now they're just nothing. They got out to the edge of the galaxy, to that place of nothing, and that's what they became.

Mal ,'Bushwhacked'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Jan 04, 2017 6:35:24 am PST #28575 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh man. I'm so sorry things went so badly.


Dana - Jan 04, 2017 6:36:48 am PST #28576 of 30002
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Man, that sucks.


sj - Jan 04, 2017 6:38:55 am PST #28577 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yikes, Teppy. I'm so sorry. Feel better.


amyth - Jan 04, 2017 6:42:18 am PST #28578 of 30002
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Aw, Steph, I'm sorry. That sounds awful. Also, boo future periods.


Steph L. - Jan 04, 2017 6:49:19 am PST #28579 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

If Trump wants a truly impenetrable wall of racism between us and Mexico, he should build it out of my cervix, because NOTHING is getting through it.

Maybe he'd offer me a position in his cabinet if I Tweet that to him.

Which I will NOT do.


Steph L. - Jan 04, 2017 6:53:51 am PST #28580 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I have to say, between waking up on Jan. 1 with no water, getting food poisoning (which technically started in 2016 but lasted through yesterday), and now the Impenetrable Cervix Misadventure, I am not impressed with 2017. And we're only 4 days in.

Step it UP, 2017.


Laura - Jan 04, 2017 6:54:21 am PST #28581 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

To my credit, I've never actually thrown up on a medical person ....

It is a minor miracle that I have not.

Oh Steph, I am so sorry it was so awful. I know it really worked well for you. Is there no other options for pain free insertion? DH#1 was snipped, as was my brother, and they both said it was no big deal, although we did tease them about the whole icebag in the crotch recovery thing.

I only tried an IUD once. It was very painful, and continued being painful for 3 days, after which the thing expelled itself. No, I did not try again.


Steph L. - Jan 04, 2017 6:57:56 am PST #28582 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Is there no other options for pain free insertion?

My OB/GYN said she can do it under anesthesia in an OR, but that's a much bigger deal and she usually only does that when she's already doing another surgical procedure. And I don't think I want to go under anesthesia for an IUD, not if Tim is willing to get snipped.


sj - Jan 04, 2017 6:58:19 am PST #28583 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Didn't we order a nice 2017 for Teppy?


P.M. Marc - Jan 04, 2017 7:11:50 am PST #28584 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Tep, can you wait until the return of the red menace allows for softening? Though I will say that some aspects of my body are happier without an IUD and my periods haven't gone back to full-on horror show since.