Buffy: A Guide, but no water or food. So it leads me to the sacred place and then a week later it leads you to my bleached bones? Giles: Buffy, really. It takes more than a week to bleach bones.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - Mar 21, 2013 11:47:20 pm PDT #15655 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I learned long ago going to bed before I was already falling asleep results in lying awake getting angrier and more awake. Tee shirt, underpants, and socks. Feet get lotion, and socks keep them from drying out. I play those hey-wow, woo-woo Dan Gibson Solitudes music and nature sounds--rain puts me right on the edge of sleep, or surf. A little gentle melody helps. I have a shaku hatchi and fountain splash, waterfall, and rain collection that works nicely, too. Rigid biteplate, top sheet, thermal blanket and throw in all but the hottest weathers. If it's really cold I'll throw on long sleep pants and a long-sleeved henley, maybe another throw on the bed. I sleep on my left side, left arm under the sleeping pillow--either soft or flattish queen sized pillow, my neck cricks with too much height. Left leg straight, right knee up, huggy pillow snugged in tight.

I get up an hour before my rising time to take meds, and have another hour's sleep, on my right side, the mirror to how I slept all night. I don't move around in my sleep. My top sheet and blanket are tucked in at the foot.

And if I leave my bed unmade or undressed in the morning, I have to straighten and make it before I get in it at night.


Glamcookie - Mar 22, 2013 12:36:06 am PDT #15656 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I had no idea there were people who didn't use top sheets! Sleep has become a big issue for me in the last few weeks as I'm not getting any being all heavy with child. We also co-sleep with Shane, who is a wild sleeper. We upgraded (finally) to a king recently and it's helped some.

When I'm not pregnant, I sleep on my side or back with a flat pillow and I do a bit of focused breathing to help relax my mind. Try to empty my mind of thoughts and images and really concentrate on breathing deeply.

PG, I am sleeping with a big ass body pillow on my side, getting up a couple of times to pee in the night, and generally staying awake for at least an hour when I do wake up. Sigh. Nature is cruel with the sleep thing getting so bad right before it really goes haywire dealing with a newborn.

Oh, and we sleep with white noise, which we discovered helped Shane stay asleep when he was tiny and helped block outside noise. We live on a fairly busy street and wish we had discovered white noise years ago! It makes a big difference.


Sue - Mar 22, 2013 1:17:07 am PDT #15657 of 30001
hip deep in pie

Stomach/side sleeper. Duvet, no top sheet. Soft, scrunchy pillow. Can't bear any kind of weight or restrictions. Must have fully empty bladder (several trips to bathroom before I fall asleep). Prefer a cool room. Still have my teddy bear, but I don't really sleep "with" it, but he's in the bed.


Strix - Mar 22, 2013 1:49:38 am PDT #15658 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Side sleeper, hugging one pillow, with another pillow between my knees and a squishy pillow over my head (not the nose and mouth,though.)

When it's super-cold, we put on flannel sheets with a top sheet and the duvet, since I must sleep with the window cracked, even in subzero weather. Winter, I sleep in a tee or men's PJ top. If I am cold and wear socks to bed, I always kick them off in the night.

In the summer, I have the AC window unit on (I CANNOT sleep hot), and use a thin top sheet. DH still sleeps with the duvet in summer, but I sleep in a tank and panties, or just panties, or nude.

My ritual used to be taking my ambien and reading, but I am going to have to develop a new bedtime ritual.


Jesse - Mar 22, 2013 3:08:33 am PDT #15659 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

In to my 20s, I would lie down on my back and never move again until morning. Now I usually fall asleep on my side and move around some. I always wear something, but it varies on the temperature. Top sheet, definitely, because I'd rather wash my sheets more often than my duvet cover. I'm currently wondering if my mouthguard makes me sleep less well, and if the benefit of not grinding my teeth down to nubs is worth it.


Kat - Mar 22, 2013 3:36:30 am PDT #15660 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I'm currently wondering if my mouthguard makes me sleep less well, and if the benefit of not grinding my teeth down to nubs is worth

I have this question also. It does make me sleep less well, though. I don't wonder about it so much.


Jesse - Mar 22, 2013 3:53:24 am PDT #15661 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm not sure if the regular grinding is worse. I slept SO WELL on vacation, and didn't have my mouthguard with me, but also was on vacation.


Amy - Mar 22, 2013 4:27:39 am PDT #15662 of 30001
Because books.

I start on my side, and sometimes wind up on my stomach, but I generally just switch sides. Never slept on my back. Two pillows.

No top sheet, comforter only, t-shirt, panties, bare feet. Sometimes when it's really cold I'll put on a pair of light pajama pants. I like it colder in the room so I can burrow, and if S. had his way we'd have a fan on all the time. I generally crack a window even in the winter. I can't stand to be hot when I'm sleeping.


Jesse - Mar 22, 2013 4:44:53 am PDT #15663 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh god, I forgot to say how much I hate the fans! I'm in general not a fan of white noise, so even when the fan wasn't blowing on me, the noise bothers me.


Laura - Mar 22, 2013 4:50:16 am PDT #15664 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Lots of pillows, cocooned, top sheet, blankets, and in perpetual motion. One side, the other side, flipped with head to foot of bed, on my stomach, on my back. Might say I am a restless sleeper. I really like sleeping on the boat and should do so more often. Ah, rock to sleep.

When the boys were small we played musical beds a lot without planning it. They would be in our bed, we would grab a recliner or couch, every combination imaginable, including tents in the yard. We are pretty random with the sleep patterns. I've recently moved a comfy couch to the patio and am considering picking up some mosquito netting so I can sleep outside. More options are always good.