I guess I'm with ita (unless I misunderstood her post): I don't get people whose lives are a performance. I don't mean people who are performers for a living; even Alan Rickman gets a private life, you know? But people who choose to make their private life a public performance is just beyond my comprehension. And it also doesn't feel like it's real. Not if it's all a performance.
No, I get that; like I said, it's certainly not how I'd want to live my life, and there is a certain amount of artifice in any performance. But that seemed like a genuine and very affecting moment for both of them. She didn't know he was going to show up, right? So that moment felt very real to me.
Gah, I just found out that my Health Savings account from my previous job (that I left end of June), in order to use it, I needed to have incurred expenses before my termination date.
Damn. How was I to know that? Also, due to circumstances that ended up with me leaving, I missed last year's deadline for 2011 expenses. So I'm out hundreds of $$. Bah.
She didn't know he was going to show up, right? So that moment felt very real to me.
That moment was real, but if I was reuniting with a lover after decades and I had a choice between the moment lasting a minute and perhaps not doing it onstage with a stopclock going--I know what I'd choose. That's the artifice--his choice to make it a performance piece, instead of whatever normal people do in that circumstance.
(Which is to say, I think Steph and I are on the same page, and probably -t)
Oof, that sucks, le nubian. I didn't think that was how HSAs were supposed to work.
I'm not quite on the same page, I don't think - given the backstory that was included, making the reunion part of a performance piece seems to fit their relationship. I just don't get anything from seeing it, which arguably makes it a poor choice for performance, although other people do, so that's not a strong argument.
my new job has a HSA and an FSA (oh my god, I'm going to need another degree just to understand my benefits). So when people get a HSA and FSA, the FSA is only good for non-medical benefits (like vision and dental) until I hit the deductible for HSA ($1,500). I submitted receipts for doctor's visits and dental to the FSA already and some of that will be kicked back apparently.
Why is this so complicated? The HSA rolls over, but the FSA concludes at the end of this year. Given I have a crown to get, I think these funds will be tapped all the way down.
I don't know how people who are seriously ill can navigate this bullshit. I think I'd rather go to the DMV.
given the backstory that was included, making the reunion part of a performance piece seems to fit their relationship
Fitting the relationship, sure. Affecting, no. There's nothing about that that speaks to me, and the fact that they're doing it for other people makes it so much less likely to affect me.
