hidden habits of ineffective people

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YMMV

Not that I use a French press, but wait, what?

I had to look that one up, too:

A 2007 study by the Baylor College of Medicine indicates that the diterpene molecules cafestol and kahweol, found only in coffee beans, may raise levels of low-density lipoprotein or LDL in humans.

Paper coffee filters have a property that binds to lipid-like compounds which allows the filter to remove most of the cafestol and kahweol found in coffee. Brew methods which do not use a paper filter, such as the use of a press pot, do not remove cafestol and kahweol from the final brewed product.

Omg I need to motivate. really seriously. Mac wants to have a friend over and I have not even showered. It's in the 60's outside which is like perfect yard work weather. must MOTIVATE!!

I need music, that's it!

Thanks, Tom!

For me, I think the key to avoiding internet slap fights is that I've found a way to circumvent my need to be right with the moral superiority of I Don't Have Time for This Bullshit.

I think police shoot too casually too, but I don't know if that's having a causal effect.

I do and I don't. Individual cops that I talk to get really upset at having to shoot because if they are at the point of shooting and that it most likely means someone dies. They don't shoot to warn, they shoot to stop life.

No, seriously: when I make a pie and have leftover pastry dough, I roll it out thin and brush it with milk, cinnamon & sugar, and then roll it into a tube and bake it with the pie. That's what I had for breakfast. It's a family thing: I don't know if anyone else does that.

We do!

Kristen mentioned that Best Buy queues people up for doorbusters before the door opens and then go down the line handing each person a coupon for the item they are waiting for until they reach the end of the supply for the item. Before the doors open, everyone knows that they will get (or not get) what they wanted. It reduces the weird panic. That's preventative crowd control. If you do not have the resources to do this, do not have doorbusters.

It is the only way that makes sense to me. And the lack of it at most stores is part of why I would never wait in a line to get a deal, much less wait in a random crowd.

That hipster PDA might actually work for me. Hmmm.

There can and have been people killed in crowd crushes at Black Friday events. Would that more of the chains use the Best Buy method.

I still haven't left Mom's for my shopping, but then again I don't Have To.

Yesterday, as part of Thanksgiving, my brother's family brought their Golden Retriever, who is a freaking genius for her breed. If she caught you making eye contact with her, you were in for some lovin' -- which since she practically outweighs my Mom could be bad, so we kept telling Mom not to look at the dog... :-).

YMMV

Mine absolutely does. I don't waste time by responding to people, I get work done by responding to people. That's *such* a variable point to make. I'm not even in customer service, but much of my job is communicate, talk, talk, facilitate, arrange, inform, and respond.

I will never create more than I consume, and the only way I'd be able to do that is to cut down on my consuming, because I can't significantly up my creation, and there's a quantum jump between the two levels. I would not be a better person for consuming less. I like learning and expanding my horizons. It's a thing.

Speaking of vanity metrics, I just bumped into klout, and while I think it's wanky in the a lot of the British sense of wanking, surely if I'm going to create more, isn't it better if my creation has an audience? That I can inform and influence people? What's the point of creating in a vacuum? That is also onanistic.

I also wonder if many of the people who say they multi-task efficiently don't mean the same thing as the people who criticise multi-tasking? But what do I know? I have to respond to people, and I can't always do it on my own schedule. Nowhere near as much as I'd like to, anyway. Still, I will get evaluated on responsiveness, so if I push back too hard on multi-tasking, I will be marked down for it. But working at home means I have more control over things.

At least today is a nice quiet day where I get to respond on my own schedule, and no one is calling me. Sadly, however, I can't get anyone to respond to me. I also need that to be productive.

Individual cops that I talk to get really upset at having to shoot because if they are at the point of shooting and that it most likely means someone dies. They don't shoot to warn, they shoot to stop life.

Absolutely. Training says every shot is supposed to be a kill shot (which is why I wonder at all the gun-pulling on TV. Please tell me that doesn't happen as much in real life--if you're not going to shoot, don't point. That's not what you were taught). However, it may just be a result of what makes news, but excessive shooting gets reported, and I also know individual cops who are damned violence and trigger happy, because they believe bad people need to be taught a lesson.

So? Bananas.

For me, I think the key to avoiding internet slap fights is that I've found a way to circumvent my need to be right with the moral superiority of I Don't Have Time for This Bullshit.

I've found that "S/He's not worth arguing with" works pretty well.

I've found that "S/He's not worth arguing with" works pretty well.

Yeah, I'm pretty much in the "arguing with idiots is a waste of time" group.