Tracy: 'When you can't run, you crawl... and when you can't crawl, when you can't do that--' Zoe: 'You find someone to carry you.'

'The Message'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Nov 20, 2011 7:59:52 pm PST #7761 of 30001

I bought the first place I looked at. I went and lOoked at bunches of other places before offering for it though.


Liese S. - Nov 20, 2011 8:01:21 pm PST #7762 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

If you were to hear someone bought it already, how would you feel?

It doesn't feel impulsive to me. You've been thinking about the purchase for a while, and you know what you need. From the photos, it's completely remodeled; it looks really gorgeous. The yard has automated sprinklers, so I think you would be able to manage the maintenance. It being a house not a condo is a big difference, so if that matters to you, I think that's the only big stumbling block. But the house will have more privacy, although more maintenance overall than a condo.

Where's sarameg for her obligatory "It's okay to fall in love with a house right away" speech?


bon bon - Nov 20, 2011 8:02:30 pm PST #7763 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

Presumably your realtor brought you to the best option he had on the market that fit your criteria. It's not so hard to believe.


Liese S. - Nov 20, 2011 8:03:35 pm PST #7764 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Basically, it's a good realtor that will show you the absolute best place for you right off the top. Sometimes buyers aren't clear with their priorities, and then you get the winnowing process. But I think you know what you want, and the fact that the realtor found it for you is not a bad thing.

Even just with the land? We looked at this lot really early. At the time the board was hesitant, so we didn't offer on it and it went off the market. It came right back on, for ten grand more, so we made the seller a cool profit. But for us, it was well worth it to have the right lot. We have truly loved it here.

(ha, xposty with the bon)


Burrell - Nov 20, 2011 8:14:03 pm PST #7765 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

It doesn't seem impulsive to me either. I know it's hard to buy a house though, it just is. Most expensive purchase you'll make and all.


Lee - Nov 20, 2011 8:32:25 pm PST #7766 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

All good points!

If you were to hear someone bought it already, how would you feel?

I would be sad, but not crushed, I think. I do think it will get sold pretty quickly to somebody, even it's not me, which is making me think I should try to make up my mind quickly.


Cass - Nov 20, 2011 8:39:37 pm PST #7767 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Yard scenario could be changing to a more actual California landscaping which means tons less water and maintenance. So there could be options there. If you love it and want it.

Sleeeeeeeeeeeep.


lisah - Nov 21, 2011 2:18:59 am PST #7768 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

Perkins, I didnt look at any other houses before buying mine except a few that were on a tour I had to do to get some city money. So I see no reason to write off just because it was the First house! Excited for you!! Good luck!


Cashmere - Nov 21, 2011 3:29:01 am PST #7769 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Perkins, we tried to make an offer on a house driving away from the viewing! But it was already in contract when we made the call. It's not crazy if you fell in love with it. Good luck on the search!

I miss Minneapolis and AT&T's 3G coverage there. Back to the sticks and my lousy coverage.


Jesse - Nov 21, 2011 4:18:03 am PST #7770 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, Perkins, you know what you want -- if it's this, go for it! And good luck!

I am apparently allergic to my office building. Last week, I thought I was getting a cold, but I was fine all weekend. Now I'm back here and congested again. Bleh!