Buffy: A Guide, but no water or food. So it leads me to the sacred place and then a week later it leads you to my bleached bones? Giles: Buffy, really. It takes more than a week to bleach bones.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Feb 05, 2012 1:51:57 pm PST #20452 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

LOUD LAUGHING CHILDREN!!! THE HORROR!!!!

Actually I worry that we are loud but that my neighbors currently aren't home enough to notice.


tommyrot - Feb 05, 2012 2:00:19 pm PST #20453 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Oh god, at my current building I've had three different tenants above or below me who slept during the day and stayed up all night making noise.

At least the current guy below me actually has become quieter at night after I asked.


Liese S. - Feb 05, 2012 2:00:43 pm PST #20454 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

That's one of the things that I love about living so far out in the desert. We actually are kind of noisy, annoying neighbors. We have a dog, we have kids over who stay late, we do recording and mixing which are often noisy. Our yard is messy with yard tools. We shoot archery in the backyard. But there's literally no one around to mind, so we can do it with aplomb.


tommyrot - Feb 05, 2012 2:01:11 pm PST #20455 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Also, I'm watching the Big Sports Thing and I still don't know who to root for.


brenda m - Feb 05, 2012 2:20:22 pm PST #20456 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

In university had a roommate who did clog dancing.

Right after I moved in the guys living below us, who I happened to know from elsewhere, had a party. I brought my roommates down and the guy was able to pinpoint whose bedroom was whose. Oops.

That said, the one who was the clog dancer actually helped me a lot with these kinds of issues. Before I moved in (so before the others met the guys downstairs), if she knew they were having a party, she made plans to stay elsewhere. And she always had earplugs at the ready. The idea that you could approach noise issues as "I know this will bother me, they're not doing anything out of bounds, so is there something I can do to minimize the impact?" was kind of new. So if my neighbor has the occasional party that makes it hard to sleep, I try to go earplugs and stuff before getting all worked up and irritated.

(When it's reasonable noise, not middle of a weeknight band practice or something.)


flea - Feb 05, 2012 2:24:07 pm PST #20457 of 30001
information libertarian

We lived next to a(n unofficial) Frat House from the time I was pregnant with Casper until she was nearly 5 and Dillo was 2, so my standards for offensively noisy necessarily became somewhat relaxed.


javachik - Feb 05, 2012 2:29:39 pm PST #20458 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

I was very worried when my house flooded last year because the interior and exterior fans and dehumidifiers (some of these were over 5 feet tall, and there were 56 pieces of machinery in and outside of my house) were extremely noisy and were on 24/7 for exactly a week. But thankfully the neighbors on every side were extremely sympathetic and didn't complain. I went around to 8 neighboring houses when I moved back in, and left a bottle of wine and a "thank you for being so patient with the noise" card on their porches.

I actually LOVE to hear the sounds of children screaming and laughing and otherwise just happy neighborhood noise. Maybe not at 3 if I am trying to sleep, but it's part of being alive.


smonster - Feb 05, 2012 2:31:05 pm PST #20459 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I had an upstairs neighbor who clogged. I actually had him stand in my apartment while I fake clogged in his. He didn't do it anymore - he was a nice guy and truly didn't realize.


sarameg - Feb 05, 2012 2:34:39 pm PST #20460 of 30001

In one of my college apartments, my upstairs neighbor was this wee slip of a girl who WALKED LIKE AN ELEPHANT. I could not figure out how that little mass could make so much noise. And it wasn't the building construction, I could barely hear the other roommates, and one was a giant.

Cashed in some gift cards and now have 3 new skirts for work.


javachik - Feb 05, 2012 2:35:30 pm PST #20461 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

smonster, how funny! Sometimes people are just in their own little oblivious vacuums, aren't they?

Cashed in some gift cards and now have 3 new skirts for work.

Cool! Pics?