2 in a row, again-

HOMG, the woman temporarily working across the hall from me talks on the phone ALL DAY about her daughter's cheerleading team. The quiet was bothering me, but this is ridiculous.

Oh, yikes, ita. A pain crisis sounds wretched.

Noah has pissed me off. Therefore he's getting risotto and carrots for lunch instead of chicken nuggets.

A long ago boyfriend used to try and use positive reinforcement to get me to clean and it seriously made me want to kill him. "Good job doing the dishes, Sophia!!!". "Good job putting away the laundrey!!!". Aaaargh. It made me feel like I was a child.

Tim always thanks me for doing the dishes (or whatever chore I miraculously manage to rise above my slovenliness to do), after 4 years of living together. t edit Er, I mean, he's been doing it all along; I'm kind of amazed that he *still* thanks me, after 4 years. t /edit I think it's sweet, and I try to remember to thank him when he vacuums the house or picks up Kato poops in the backyard, etc.

But I think thanking is different from "Good job!"-ing. I think the cheerleading would get on my nerves, too.

Emmett just texted me that his train to school was delayed because some nimrod drove their SUV down into the Muni tunnel.

Which, according to JZ, is the second time that's happened in the last couple years.

Therefore he's getting risotto and carrots for lunch instead of chicken nuggets.

Hee. Only a little kid gets punished with risotto.

Steph, it could be that Tim had to do things himself for long enough that having you do anything is appreciated. Or it could be that he is, as we know, awesome.

Sophia, that former boyfriend - understand why he's an ex. Tim's being appreciative - he was being more parental than treating you as an equal.

And, in overhearing co-workers' conversations - we had a woman on staff who practically moved mountains to get her son into a school that had high academic standards and very strict rules about dress and behavior. The first week of school she spent on the phone trying to get them to relax their dress code for her son (he was "portly" to use her phrase and wasn't comfortable with tucking in his shirt and she wanted him to be able to wear sneakers rather than dress shoes) and other things I can't remember.

Billytea, does the Lion's Mane Jellyfish really exist? YIKES!

I have to get dressed and go outside in the -8F temp. Don't wanna. Want to crawl back into my warm bed.

Steph, it could be that Tim had to do things himself for long enough that having you do anything is appreciated. Or it could be that he is, as we know, awesome.

I think he just doesn't want to make me feel like he takes it for granted. Because he's super-nice. I keep hoping it'll rub off on me.

Hee. Only a little kid gets punished with risotto.

I also realize punishing him with the food I want him to eat rather than the food he wants to eat will backfire on me.

Oh he made me angry this morning.

Emmett just texted me that his train to school was delayed because some nimrod drove their SUV down into the Muni tunnel.

Which, according to JZ, is the second time that's happened in the last couple years.

Yeah, I think that happened once or twice when I lived in SF.