you don't owe her the time of day. i'd block that user then nix the request.
That's the thrill of living in the Hellmouth! There's a veritable cornucopia of fiends and devils and ghouls to engage ... Pardon me for finding the glass half-full.
Giles ,'Same Time, Same Place'
Natter 67: Overriding Vetoes
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, nail polish, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
erin_obscure - Nov 15, 2010 2:19:00 pm PST #5638 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
Strix - Nov 15, 2010 2:25:00 pm PST #5639 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Erin, if you can stand the squirminess of explaining your financial situation to complete strangers, it might be worth going in or writing a letter to ask for a reduction in the ticket fee. At least, I know that San Francisco has a lot of stupidly punitive ticket hardassery and yet even so will sometimes write down or off excess fees for people who really need it. And $600 is a crazy amount. That's like, what, half a mortgage payment? A month's worth of groceries? A month of child support or daycare or a year's worth of kid clothes? Tie it to something concrete and pressing in your lives that any sane person would agree has to be a priority.
JZ, I have NO PROBLEMS doing that, and that is a great idea. Thanks
How would you feel about Onerous Task Support Group Hour?
Count me in. I can deal with that ticket,and oh, so many other money related things.
Daniel, I am so sorry for your family's loss.
megan walker - Nov 15, 2010 2:29:25 pm PST #5640 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
OK, FB test concluded.
I couldn't see any posts by L'Obscure while I was awaiting confirmation, or once she had ignored me.
Also, even after she ignored me, my request was still showing as awaiting confirmation, so I had to cancel the request and resend. I hope she'll finally accept.
::bats eyelashes::
Also, there are many, many Erin [LastName]s out there.
erin_obscure - Nov 15, 2010 2:40:33 pm PST #5641 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
lesson learned: if your posts are filtered to friends only, no one sees them whilst awaiting confirmation. And i have a very common name :)
Steph L. - Nov 15, 2010 2:46:02 pm PST #5642 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
lesson learned: if your posts are filtered to friends only, no one sees them whilst awaiting confirmation.
I knew that, though. Some of my posts are just set to "Everyone." I fairly well don't care if the world can see that I'm happy Tim is vacuuming the bedroom.
megan walker - Nov 15, 2010 2:49:53 pm PST #5643 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
Some of my posts are just set to "Everyone."
You mean you specifically set that on a post, or it's your default?
Note: If I had to remember to filter specific posts, I'd go crazy, so I wanted to make sure the privacy defaults worked.
Cass - Nov 15, 2010 2:50:05 pm PST #5644 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
I fairly well don't care if the world can see that I'm happy Tim is vacuuming the bedroom.
Think of the dust bunnies on Facebook!
Cass - Nov 15, 2010 3:43:59 pm PST #5645 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Watching the Nova show on dogs. Turns out, the kitties are NOT PLEASED. Too much barky bark.
sumi - Nov 15, 2010 3:51:48 pm PST #5646 of 30001
Art Crawl!!!
I want them to do a similar study on cats - you know, about the left eye thing.
And thanks everyone for the birthday wishes. I'm feeling pretty good despite my great age and decrepitude.
beth b - Nov 15, 2010 3:52:32 pm PST #5647 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Happy birthday sumi !