Angel: Yeah, I never told anyone about this, but I-I liked your poems. Spike: You like Barry Manilow.

'Hell Bound'


Natter 67: Overriding Vetoes  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, nail polish, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Lee - Dec 28, 2010 4:23:15 pm PST #13370 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

When you figure it out, let me know. Maybe I can copy you.


Pix - Dec 28, 2010 4:24:32 pm PST #13371 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

Actually, if you'd like to spend sometime having coffee and grading on Thursday, I'd love to see you, Kristin.

That would be excellent! I really need to focus, and this could be key. You're welcome to come over or we could head somewhere like Panera. What's your pleasure?


sarameg - Dec 28, 2010 5:14:29 pm PST #13372 of 30001

I basically watched Top Gear UK and The Unit in Alabama. And countless Diego and other Nick stuff, but I refuse to count that. Watching Top Gear with a car geek is awesome fun.

I am home and mostly unpacked. Goddamned baggage handlers broke 3 really well packed things: plastic mixing bowl, glass in a frame and the ornament Tyler painted for me. The latter really pisses me off, but it is at least easily fixable.

Lunatic that I am, I got home, shot Mister Kitty and went out and swam. 1.5 miles. It's always interesting after a period of time off. Then unpacked and ate dinner.

Loki is nuts, Devi is needy, Mister Kitty is asleep.

Eventually, I'll take the empty luggage downstairs, go through my mail and really find homes for things. Eventually is not now.


Kat - Dec 28, 2010 5:29:17 pm PST #13373 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Pix, the upside to Panera is unlimited iced tea, which is a bonus... the downside is the distractibility factor. I'm highly prone to distraction. So I'll leave the choice up to you.


Kat - Dec 28, 2010 5:31:12 pm PST #13374 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

sara, glad you're home safe and sound.

It's 7:30 and both kids are in bed (asleep is questionable). Grace didn't have a nap today and Noah certainly didn't have a long enough one.

I have taken codeine in an attempt to get my neck to unspasm.

But I'm headed to bed.


sarameg - Dec 28, 2010 5:35:41 pm PST #13375 of 30001

Sleep well! I'm not betting on whether my nephews are asleep. Their schedule got all ferwonked Xmas day when they and PJ took a 6 hour nap. D's isn't so bad, but T? Oy. Child would be wide awake from 6 until 1 am and utterly immoveable before 9. And that's changing tomorrow.

Loki is lying on the suitcase like it's his royal throne. And I'm discovering his shredded paper stores....


Kat - Dec 28, 2010 5:39:45 pm PST #13376 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Okay, I just got an email from a student. We submitted midterm report cards a week before winter break. The kid had been in class 3 days of the 20 classes we had during that marking period. Final grades won't be submitted until February.

He asked me if he had any chance of passing. He's missed half the semester, the half where we do much of the work, as a matter of fact. If I say no he doesn't, he won't attend school. If I say he does, then I am either lying or willing to give him make up work.

What should I do?


DavidS - Dec 28, 2010 5:46:23 pm PST #13377 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

What should I do?

I guess the proper answer is putting the onus of responsibility on him. 3 out of 20 is not even close to enough.

However, I would take into account his willingness or likelihood of him actually turning himself around.

Is it likely that this is a real turning point for him? Or is he simply desperate and postponing something inevitable that he's not ready to deal with yet?


Kat - Dec 28, 2010 5:53:35 pm PST #13378 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Well, given his past track record, I'd say that it doesn't matter so I may as well say, "sure! you could pass, but you have a ton of this work to make up, like 1000 points worth of work which includes 3 compositions of at least 1500, including one on a book you never bothered to read!" because I don't think he'll actually do anything.

I can't remember if I passed him during the last semester (we do a full-year's course in 20 weeks... so every 10 weeks you get a full semester grade). But if he didn't, he still needs to repeat this course. I'm the only teacher of the course and I will be reteaching it in the Spring. So....


Liese S. - Dec 28, 2010 6:00:01 pm PST #13379 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I would probably say no, but I am a hardass. I would probably also have a talk with him about the benefit of attending school even without the pass, but I can see why he wouldn`t. It is generally much easier to keep a student in school than to get him back once he`s left, if you want to take that into consideration in your make-up work. Would you be able to assign enough make-up so that it`s fair to the other students who did show up? Again, hardass, but the vast majority of my students do not graduate.