Well, we may not have parted on the best of terms. I realize certain words were exchanged. Also, certain... bullets. But that's air through the engine. It's past. We're business people.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Natter 66: Get Your Kicks.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Aug 23, 2010 7:13:55 pm PDT #19733 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

researching health insurance policies = not fun

This seems like the understatement of the century.

My health insurance issue continues to be No Good. I had yet another two people tell me that I should take Grace off my insurance and she'd be covered by Medi-Cal which would be easier. But I don't think it's even true. I think that Medi-Cal would find a way NOT to cover her based on my salary.

And, hand to god, I'm ready to cry. The PT they sent us today wouldn't see Grace because they don't specialize in pediatrics. But that's where we were sent.

I kinda want to cry.


Amy - Aug 23, 2010 7:21:23 pm PDT #19734 of 30001
Because books.

Argh, Kat. I'm so sorry.


Kat - Aug 23, 2010 7:24:24 pm PDT #19735 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

In other news, have I talked about my love of Linda Holmes here yet?

She tackles a lesson handed out by reality TV here: [link] The best bits:

I, personally, don't have a lot of time to nurse grudges against my friends, because of rent-paying and grocery-shopping obligations. I mean, I doubt I would anyway, but who would have the energy? Who would babysit my friends' kids if they went to war with me? Who would drive me to the airport if I went to war with them? Getting over grudges is utilitarian. Being somewhat judicious in your choice of things to get incredibly upset about is the only way you're going to have enough time left over to make dinner.

So as you pay your bills and cook your dinner and take your cat to the vet, take a moment and thank your life for containing at least a few small challenges you have to meet on a given day. Your unrelenting routine may be one of your weapons against becoming kind of a horrible person.

Also true of the internet! The busier I am, the less tussling and arguing I do because who has the time?


msbelle - Aug 23, 2010 7:36:26 pm PDT #19736 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I thought getting mac off my COBRA would be pretty easy and that I could get him on the state insurance thingy-ma-bob for kids. But with my NY salary, I made too much this year for him to qualify for the TX state kids insurance thingy. And the private insurance options I have looked at will only take us as a package or me alone. I may still be able to get a cheaper plan than my COBRA, but I first have to clear that they will cover his therapies and meds and not discount them as pre-existings, have to clear that the therapist will take the insurance (possibly not a deal-breaker is the insurance has an HSA allowance), and must find out what hospitals are covered. I am guessing it will take me over a week to check out 4 plans.


Cass - Aug 23, 2010 7:49:34 pm PDT #19737 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Oh, I hope Polgara gets some relief and a doctor soon.


§ ita § - Aug 23, 2010 8:05:36 pm PDT #19738 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

It was a stone. She's on her way home. Getting meds. What meds do you get for a stone. Something to dissolve it? Ease the pain?


meara - Aug 23, 2010 8:08:54 pm PDT #19739 of 30001

It was a stone. She's on her way home. Getting meds. What meds do you get for a stone. Something to dissolve it? Ease the pain?

Pain meds. Sometimes they can do a ...laser? ultrasound?...thingie thing to break up stones. I think usually they wait until they pass unless they're huge. And then they start going "Um, so why do you HAVE one?" and try to figure out if there's meds to give to prevent future ones.


DavidS - Aug 23, 2010 8:13:47 pm PDT #19740 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

They use ultrasound to break up the stones.

But you still have to piss jagged rocks.


Burrell - Aug 23, 2010 8:19:03 pm PDT #19741 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh noes! Poor Polgara! Those things hurt. Does she need tending to? Let me know. I have some time tomorrow.


Matt the Bruins fan - Aug 23, 2010 8:41:31 pm PDT #19742 of 30001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Less pain~ma vibes to Polgara.

However, I still would not be able to spend $400 on a pair of jeans.

Yeah, the only way I'd pay that much for jeans is if Ben Browder would be breaking them in for me and then stopping by to strip them off and hand 'em to me in person.

Really, coats are the only items of clothing that I'll break three digits on. (Well, and suits, but I already have one that will hopefully remain serviceable for another decade or so...)