HAS BELL INVENTED A "TELEGRAPH KILLER"?
Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.
Lilah ,'Destiny'
Natter 64: Yes, we still need you
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
tommyrot - Nov 24, 2009 12:53:27 pm PST #21199 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
msbelle - Nov 24, 2009 12:58:57 pm PST #21200 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
OH! I've been meaning to say SUE! we got the stuff THANK YOU! because I suck at remembering to send email.
Erin, I don't think the video game matters, but given my exposure to men (my father, brother, and son), I would say that expecting something without asking for it is a thought pattern that will result in frustration many times over.
Jesse - Nov 24, 2009 1:01:47 pm PST #21201 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
I would say that expecting something without asking for it is a thought pattern that will result in frustration many times over.
I actually think that's a reasonable rule of thumb for dealing with anyone.
Scrappy - Nov 24, 2009 1:03:03 pm PST #21202 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
I agree.
msbelle - Nov 24, 2009 1:15:21 pm PST #21203 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
my one grandmother brought me stuff without my asking. I believe fairies and nymphs do too, js.
Jesse - Nov 24, 2009 1:16:25 pm PST #21204 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
My grandmother brings me stuff without my asking, but it's not usually stuff I want!
Speaking of grandmothers, I'm sorry, smonster.
Sheryl - Nov 24, 2009 1:28:05 pm PST #21205 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
Timelies all!
One more day of work this week, yay.
Strix - Nov 24, 2009 1:32:49 pm PST #21206 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
my one grandmother brought me stuff without my asking. I believe fairies and nymphs do too, js.
But, but -- I do this for him! I bring him stuff ALL THE TIME!!
Maybe this is why he's my first live-in reltionship.
I am running into the whole "I do these things, why can't you try to anticipate my needs as a sign of love" thing, and while I realize it's a differnet mind pattern/societal upbringing/not-thinking-reciprocally blah blah relationshipcakes, it's still very frustrating!
But he is over there assiduously scraping the pounds of cat fur off the sofa, like I asked him, and he's being very meticulous about it, so I am just going to have to work my way through this weird boy-mind thing.
And it was Mario Bros. -- which version, do not ask, I dunno.
He played for 7 hours. @@
Sophia Brooks - Nov 24, 2009 1:33:29 pm PST #21207 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here
It is 6:32, and I am going to bed. I may fall asleep before I manage to eat, or after (I am waiting for food to cool).
Scrappy - Nov 24, 2009 1:36:11 pm PST #21208 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
But, but -- I do this for him! I bring him stuff ALL THE TIME!!
As my therapist once said, when I said much the same thing about a friend of mine, "Yes, but he's not you. Stop expecting people to think the way you do." That was a HUGE thing for me.