Sir? I'd like you to take the helm, please. I need this man to tear all my clothes off.

Zoe ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


billytea - May 07, 2009 7:30:26 pm PDT #9210 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

So, our little man is having his first taste of nappy rash. Jusging by his face, I'd say it tastes of betrayal. We had been using disposable wipes to clean him, but I gather they contain alcohol which is not congenial to the little Penguin right now. (Maybe if I get him to bite down on one during nappy changes instead...)

Does anyone with more experience than I've clocked have any thoughts on how best to clean him right now? The websites are a little contradictory. I'm gathering that a water-soaked face washer is pretty reliable, a couple of other sites have suggested things like mild soap or olive oil. Possibly cotton wool too. (We have a zinc cream for afterwards.)


WindSparrow - May 07, 2009 7:37:22 pm PDT #9211 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Not a parental unit, but when my mom taught me how to change diapers so I could babysit my nephews, she told me she preferred Handi-Wipes [link] (don't know if they have 'em where you are) over pre-made baby-wipes, because she could use warm water from the tap. She believed that was less of a shock to the system of sensitive little bottom. They are washable, inexpensive, and when they get really cruddy, can be tossed out.

It's been ages since then and part of me wonders if they are being made with ever more cheap fibers, and therefore no longer as soft and absorbent.


Hil R. - May 07, 2009 7:38:23 pm PDT #9212 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Office etiquette question -- if someone is listening to music on headphones, and it's loud enough that I can hear it (like, clearly hear it, well enough to easily identify the song) from about ten feet away, is it OK to ask them to turn it down? (Officemate and I are having music battles. I need total quiet to concentrate. He needs music, preferably loud. I thought headphones would be the solution, but I can still hear everything. Maybe I'll get earplugs.)


Cashmere - May 07, 2009 7:42:15 pm PDT #9213 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

bt, the hospital told us to use just plain, damp gauze pads for the first week and we did. you can get the large square one used for larger wounds. they're actually better at the sticky poo than anything else. Then switch to a sensitive skin type wipe. A zinc based rash cream is also a good idea.


billytea - May 07, 2009 7:42:20 pm PDT #9214 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Not a parental unit, but when my mom taught me how to change diapers so I could babysit my nephews, she told me she preferred Handi-Wipes [link] (don't know if they have 'em where you are) over pre-made baby-wipes, because she could use warm water from the tap. She believed that was less of a shock to the system of sensitive little bottom. They are washable, inexpensive, and when they get really cruddy, can be tossed out.

Ooh, that's a great idea. I like that.


Burrell - May 07, 2009 7:43:08 pm PDT #9215 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

For those first few weeks I used unmoistened wipes that I rinsed in warm water, after that I will 'fess up that I just used the unscented, premoistened kind. The main thing is to use a diaper creme on that little bottom so it's protected.


omnis_audis - May 07, 2009 7:44:28 pm PDT #9216 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Have him turn it down. Way too loud.


Hil R. - May 07, 2009 7:45:59 pm PDT #9217 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I kind of feel like, he's already compromised by using headphones rather than the speakers, so if it's still not good enough, it ought to be my turn to compromise next by getting earplugs. (Which will also have the benefit of stopping him from interrupting me while I'm working to ask, "You get distracted really easily, don't you?")


billytea - May 07, 2009 7:46:44 pm PDT #9218 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Have him turn it down. Way too loud.

Ok, serious double-take moment there.


omnis_audis - May 07, 2009 8:08:59 pm PDT #9219 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Why the double take?