River: The human body can be drained of blood in 8.6 seconds given adequate vacuuming systems. Mal: See, morbid and creepifying, I got no problem with, long as she does it quiet-like.

'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Apr 25, 2009 6:58:35 am PDT #7890 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Going into what should be a fairly unpleasant conference call. Do not want.


vw bug - Apr 25, 2009 6:59:17 am PDT #7891 of 30000
Mostly lurking...

It's a beautiful Saturday. People should not be having such crappy days and tasks!


Sparky1 - Apr 25, 2009 6:59:50 am PDT #7892 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

Isn't there some very important yet obscure volume you can send her off to hunt down?

I neglected to mention that her glasses are broken and only have one lens, so she has difficulty finding things.

At least she remembered to bring her own pen and paper. Patrons that show up with neither make me wonder about what picture they had in their head of what they would do here.

Anyone lucky enough to employ you ought to be treating you much better than that.

My co-workers are being fabulous and flexible w/r/t my pregnancy, and I've volunteered to work all sorts of Saturdays and holidays because when I have to go out they'll be stuck with all of them. It's the institution and it's policies that deserves to have rotten tomatoes tossed over its walls.


Shir - Apr 25, 2009 7:01:16 am PDT #7893 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

< Storming with the rant >

Dear God, help me not to strangle a friend of mine, for she is, in her way, strangling me.

I might have to reconsider my relationship with her. She's needy and have anxiety issues she's working on (both are things she admits about herself, and working on them), and I told her she can talk with me because I hate leaving people I care about in situations like she is in now without support, but God dammit. I think I talked with her more in the past 2 weeks than with any other person in my life, and we're not that close. I care about her, but I don't wanna - and I can't, in fact - jump everytime she's feeling anxiety over ridiculous things, which happens about 1-2 times per day.

Don't know what to do. One of the funniest, cleverest friends of mine, but the woman is 30+ and spent over an hour, this week, analyzing to death and freaking out on the other side of the phone whether or not someone read the FB message she sent to him. There's only so much I can do, and I'd like to be there for her, but I don't think what I'm doing is enough. And the little I try to do is mostly driving me crazy.

OK, I'm done.


vw bug - Apr 25, 2009 7:32:44 am PDT #7894 of 30000
Mostly lurking...

Shir, does she have a therapist of some sort? You may want to gently persuade her to utilize her therapist more...


Shir - Apr 25, 2009 7:38:22 am PDT #7895 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

She sees a psychologist once a week.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 25, 2009 7:56:04 am PDT #7896 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

OMG, it is so beautiful outside and I am so unmotivated to work on this paper!


Shir - Apr 25, 2009 8:01:50 am PDT #7897 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I'm nearly done with mine, but I find it hard to reread and edit it for the last time. It might be only 2 pages long, but it's 2 pages of criticism about Baudrillard. I can't keep up with my own thoughts. Meh.

Edit: actually, that was easier and quicker than I thought.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 25, 2009 8:07:53 am PDT #7898 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Mine needs to be 25 pages and I'm just on page 2.


Laura - Apr 25, 2009 8:10:18 am PDT #7899 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I have no papers to write, but lots of other work to accomplish. This board is not really very helpful with the procrastination today.