Spike ,'The Killer In Me'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
cereal to add: {{sj}} I know it's frustrating to feel this helpless. When I was in a similar situation I got very angry as well, and was pulled into her psychodrama and I eventually had to cut her off, because sure, she could choose to live unhealthily, but I could choose if I got dragged down in it.
Um, but it sucked, and it's hard of course. Last resort measures. Hopefully being honest and supportive will work in your situation.
cereal to add: {{sj}} I know it's frustrating to feel this helpless. When I was in a similar situation I got very angry as well, and was pulled into her psychodrama and I eventually had to cut her off, because sure, she could choose to live unhealthily, but I could choose if I got dragged down in it.
She's never cut me off in all my years of depressiveness, despite how much I know it often sucked for her. I can't cut her off either.
Maybe not the best move, but I sent her an e-mail saying I need to hear from her within the next hour or I'm calling everyone I know in the city in which she lives to check on her. She knows I'm crazy enough to do it, so unless she is really in trouble, she'll get back to me.
sj, I hope she's okay and things go well.
Humm. You remind me. I wanted to go henna-red again. But what cassia is, exactly?
Cassia = senna. It's another plant-based conditioner.
She responded to my e-mail, and she says she is ok right now. I'm still trying to encourage her to talk to her doctor about everything.
{{{sj}}} and sending ~ma to everyone what needs it.
I'm sorry to freak out in the thread like that. I can't take anymore badness for the people I love right now, and friends do not send friends texts like that and then not answer their damn phone.
friends do not send friends texts like that and then not answer their damn phone.
That's a very good point. Sending an alarming text and not answering the phone is just asking for concerned friends and family to take action....
~ma to everyone who needs a little or a lot.
I just had a patron who wanted me to bring books to her because her back hurt. Umm . . . Lady? I'm 32 weeks pregant, I'm not schlepping your books.