Oh, smacked in the noggin with a 2x4 wrapped in velvet. Yeah, that's what it felt like.

Lorne ,'Smile Time'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


§ ita § - Apr 01, 2009 2:02:29 pm PDT #5230 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

[link]


Laga - Apr 01, 2009 2:09:50 pm PDT #5231 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

yup. Those are awesome.


Polter-Cow - Apr 01, 2009 2:16:49 pm PDT #5232 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Pre-LJ, I was on another diary site and made many of my first online friends. One of my closest friends at the time went by the pseudonym Savannah. She met Jeremy on that site, I believe, and they began dating. A year or two ago, they finally got married. I never really got to know Jeremy, and pretty much everything I remember about our interactions on the site is negative. I didn't really like him.

He had cystic fibrosis, though. Really bad. In the last few years, we'd get updates from Savannah about lengthy hospital visits. He lost an eye last year.

And he died last week.

I think he ended up lasting a lot longer than the doctors predicted (if I recall, they hadn't even expected him to make it to adulthood). The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation says average life expectancy is 36.8 years; I think he was a few years younger than that.

I don't know how to react because while I didn't know HIM well and didn't really like him, I know and like Savannah. I'm more sad for her than I am about him, if that makes sense.


DavidS - Apr 01, 2009 2:54:05 pm PDT #5233 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I don't know how to react because while I didn't know HIM well and didn't really like him, I know and like Savannah. I'm more sad for her than I am about him, if that makes sense.

Then that's what you should express (without noting you didn't like him).

That's why we have phrases like, "I'm so sorry for your loss."

Which is exactly what you're trying to say anyway.


Polter-Cow - Apr 01, 2009 2:57:42 pm PDT #5234 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

That's why we have phrases like, "I'm so sorry for your loss."

There's a phrase for everything!


DavidS - Apr 01, 2009 2:59:22 pm PDT #5235 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I like this bike for Jilli.

No, wait...


Cashmere - Apr 01, 2009 3:12:04 pm PDT #5236 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Thanks for fixing that link, ita. I have no idea what happened and then DH brought Chinese food home for dinner.

I ate too much crab rangoon.


Barb - Apr 01, 2009 3:55:47 pm PDT #5237 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

::sigh::

Okay, I wrote what's possibly the worst Romancing the Blog column ever, but at least it's done. Not like more than six people will read it anyhow.

Feh.


Strix - Apr 01, 2009 5:09:40 pm PDT #5238 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I'll read it!

And Barb, my little sister and a friend are going to a romance mini-convention in Sept. in WVirginia. Could you...maybe look at the list o' authors and see if you know anyone, and make rec on who I should steer my sister towards? Suzy's a bookseller/librarian who reads books! She fights crime!

I went back to work today! The day was cake, the kids non-psycho, the co-workers happy to see me...and I am whipped. I took a long, hot bubble bath that left me feeling practically post-orgasmic, with added bonus freshness!


Hil R. - Apr 01, 2009 5:28:43 pm PDT #5239 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Sinuses are stupid.