Don't belong. Dangerous, like you. Can't be controlled. Can't be trusted. Everyone could just go on without me and not have to worry. People could be what they wanted to be. Could be with the people they wanted. Live simple. No secrets.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Mar 31, 2009 1:02:06 pm PDT #5106 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

He says that, since he's Irish/German/Italian/Catholic, he would have been in "some of the most oppressed groups" at various points in US history.


Dana - Mar 31, 2009 1:03:16 pm PDT #5107 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

He says that, since he's Irish/German/Italian/Catholic, he would have been in "some of the most oppressed groups" at various points in US history.

Yeah, that's at least two squares on the racism bingo card.


beth b - Mar 31, 2009 1:04:08 pm PDT #5108 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

ma~~~ Beverley

Sounds like CJ is going through the normal stuff. Teenagers sleep harder in the AM. Have another friend that was complaining about it. Sadly, earlier bed time doesn't help -- they might not sleep early ( I didn't). So -- I recommend what everyone else said -- get everything ready at night - even if it means staying up a little later. And then tell CJ that missing school is not an option. Then -- figure out what the best way to get him up is. Alarm across the room -- mom yelling -- mom turning on the lights in his room -- dog or cat on the bed.

In my case dad woke me up by opening the door sying get up - turning on the light -- and making me talk. Mom put the dog in my bed and sang. None of it was fun, but if CJ helps you figure it out then maybe he'll figure out how to get dressed and eat breakfast while still asleep faster than I did.


omnis_audis - Mar 31, 2009 1:04:39 pm PDT #5109 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Sub Italian for Czech, and paint me as on oppressed group. Chalk up the disability for modern oppression, and give me a ticket to the head of the line.


tommyrot - Mar 31, 2009 1:06:38 pm PDT #5110 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

He says that, since he's Irish/German/Italian/Catholic, he would have been in "some of the most oppressed groups" at various points in US history.

Yeah, and centuries ago I could have been executed for apostasy. Whatever.


Connie Neil - Mar 31, 2009 1:07:15 pm PDT #5111 of 30000
brillig

I always wanted to be an oppressed minority as a kid because they got extra toys at Christmas. No, I was not very highly evolved as a child. But man, I was jealous when the church choir I was in sang at the Salvation Army at Christmas, because of the pile of cool toys. I sometimes wonder how I managed to live so long so totally unaware of things.


§ ita § - Mar 31, 2009 1:21:51 pm PDT #5112 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

that's at least two squares on the racism bingo card

That it doesn't seem like he lived through.


omnis_audis - Mar 31, 2009 1:24:30 pm PDT #5113 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Curious. It seems if you have your earbuds in, waiting for a call on the iPhone, people think your listening to music and assume you can't hear them. Interesting.


Hil R. - Mar 31, 2009 1:35:32 pm PDT #5114 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Also overheard today: some undergrads talking about how Doogie Howser, MD, would never be aired now, because it's so full of sexual references that people back in 1989 just didn't notice or understand.


tommyrot - Mar 31, 2009 1:37:03 pm PDT #5115 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I've never watched Doogie, but doesn't every generation think that previous generations were more naive sexually?