I get confused. I remember everything. I remember too much, and... some of it's made up, and... some of it can't be quantified, and... there's secrets.

River ,'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laga - Jul 31, 2009 2:18:16 pm PDT #18243 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I've been on Chic-A-Go-go.

I remember! You linked to a clip, I think & I said, "Hey! I know that puppet!"


Laga - Jul 31, 2009 2:19:08 pm PDT #18244 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

This is all Georgia O'Keefe's fault

Ms. O'Keefe would counter that people are reading way too much into her flowers.


Steph L. - Jul 31, 2009 2:23:14 pm PDT #18245 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Ms. O'Keefe would counter that people are reading way too much into her flowers.

Bummer for her.


Laga - Jul 31, 2009 2:25:12 pm PDT #18246 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Yeah, I always felt a little sad for her when I would hear those stories.


Java cat - Jul 31, 2009 2:54:49 pm PDT #18247 of 30000
Not javachik

I'm here to complain. My new boss saved over two documents, with similar but not the same documents, thus effectively deleting two technical documents. Does she point out where the technical specs came from in the first place (because I know she didn't come up with them), so they can be copied and updated? No. Does she say, Oh ugh, then go home? Yes. I'm really annoyed.


sj - Jul 31, 2009 2:57:33 pm PDT #18248 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I picked up TCG from the mechanic. We're waiting for a seat at a restaurant.The mechanic thinks it is some sort of sensor thing.


Barb - Jul 31, 2009 3:30:41 pm PDT #18249 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

The mechanic thinks it is some sort of sensor thing.

Meaning it would hopefully be a minor thing?

::crossing bits for sj and TCG::


JZ - Jul 31, 2009 5:07:01 pm PDT #18250 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Oh, man, Epic, I'm sorry. It may have been me who linked -- megan walker was giving out Flower Moon Soaps at Christmas (she used to live in the same town as the proprietress) and I fell in love with mine. For as long as that tub of vanilla scrub lasted, it was my One True Soap. If they've gone under I'm gonna be double-bummed, not only for myself but that I led you astray.

Lots of cheap-and-easy-fix car~ma vibes to TCG, sj (and yummy dinner vibes to both of you).

Java cat, your boss is a stupidhead. I would still trade her for the people I work with, who are crazy screamingheads.

Somewhere around midday today, I sat down to do a personal inventory and realized that for the past TWO MONTHS, I have had to deal two to three times a week with beating down the queasy certainty that the only possible solutions are to either stand up and quit right now, or to stand up right now and run for the nearest bus north so I can jump off the Golden Gate Bridge. It's an ugly impulse and I always know it's going to pass, so I sit it out for half an hour and it passes, but it's a shitty thing to deal with twice a week. The three people I actually officially work for are incredibly delightful, but the people I spend all day with are making me more depressed, less competent and more regularly suicidal than I was six months ago (also several pounds heavier, because I'm definitely stress eating). This FUCKING SUCKS.

Also, the doctor next door, who is 8+ months pregnant, was just diagnosed with swine flu and now the entire floor is flipping out with mingled selfish fear and total loving panic for her and the baby.

So I came home and cried myself sick, and then Hec and Matilda came home and I feel like an ass because Matilda's been completely unfussy and gentle and solicitous and loving and damn, I don't want her to have to feel responsible for her mother's wellbeing.


erin_obscure - Jul 31, 2009 5:17:50 pm PDT #18251 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

oi, car and job ~ma all round. And asking for a little kitty~ma over here. My best friend's beloved kitty of 15 years died yesterday of kidney failure....and today my Mal is not responding well to his first dose of fish-flavoured prozac (hiding behind the fridge). It all makes me worried and anxious.


beth b - Jul 31, 2009 5:29:16 pm PDT #18252 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm going to say something that is rather at odds with what everyone says ... You always feel like you should be able to fix things for people you love. Really, the difference between adults and children, adults know you can't.

DH just told me a story -- his little brother was sick, dad was across the country on business, and then mom got sick. Dad had got annoyed because a rock in the yard had damaged the lawn mower. SO he and his other brother attempted to dig up the rock. Which was easily as big as a pick up truck ( CT -- we haz roks). They want to make something better. Seriously, it is what you do for family. Matilda helping is her trying to dig up the rock. she knows what comfort is.

Kitty ma~~~ to you and warm purrs to your friend, erin_o.