For me singledom was mostly heartbreak and rejection with very little sex, while relationship=happiness and lots of sex. I never want to date again. Ever.
Slay-er? Chosen One. She who hangs out a lot in cemeteries? You're kidding. Ask around. Look it up: Slayer comma The.
Buffy ,'Showtime'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
sj - Jul 10, 2009 12:09:01 pm PDT #16183 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
billytea - Jul 10, 2009 12:09:12 pm PDT #16184 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
She is just way too much of a partner in crime along with being dead sexy and everything else I could ask for, hence the staying with her and now getting married.
Well, duh.
I haven't had a date in ages but it's not like I'm going to start now. "Hi, I'm unemployed! Wanna go for coffee?"
I would think that this is the perfect time for other people to buy you coffee.
Trudy Booth - Jul 10, 2009 12:09:50 pm PDT #16185 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
Apparently at least some people from High School assume I'm gay. Facebook has been interesting.
Burrell - Jul 10, 2009 12:12:05 pm PDT #16186 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
re-evaluate every conversation we'd ever had to parse it for hidden come-ons from me.
I still treasure on HS friend's coming out story. Another friend--straight male--was visiting him in college. Gay friend says, oh by the way, I only have the one bed, you can share it with me or sleep on the floor. Friend opts to share. Well in that case I should probably tell you I'm gay, just in case that makes you change your mind.
NoiseDesign - Jul 10, 2009 12:18:07 pm PDT #16187 of 30000
Our wings are not tired
ND, but you are way more self-confident than ... well, me and practically anyone I know.
Which just sounds so odd to me. I mean I know that now I have the self confidence, but boy do I remember not having it. You are right though, I had a hard time dating in early on due to the lack of confidence thing.
StuntHusband - Jul 10, 2009 12:19:12 pm PDT #16188 of 30000
Electromagnetic candy! - Stark
Well in that case I should probably tell you I'm gay, just in case that makes you change your mind.
THIS
P.M. Marc - Jul 10, 2009 12:26:36 pm PDT #16189 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Apparently at least some people from High School assume I'm gay. Facebook has been interesting.
I had one of those Interesting Conversations with someone I reconnected with on FB.
Apparently, word had got out (through someone I don't remember coming out to AT ALL?) about me having dated women, and a binary reaction was expected. She was shocked to discover I was with a man. (I mean, sometimes, so am *I* until I remember that dating women when you're a bi woman is often frustrating and fraught, and narrows the dating pool SO MUCH. Not shockingly, I nodded along like WHOA to a recent article on the subject.)
tommyrot - Jul 10, 2009 12:28:44 pm PDT #16190 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
Back in college I was envious of all my gay and lesbian friends, as they were all in relationships, dating a lot or both. That was back when I felt guilty for being attracted to women.
Huh. Weird times.
SailAweigh - Jul 10, 2009 12:30:55 pm PDT #16191 of 30000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
Ghod, I'd love to be dating, again. Now that I'm finally ready for quality vs. quantity, the pool has dropped to zero. Of course, I'm not truly looking that hard (I delete all my "match" e-mails from match.com as soon as they hit my mailbox. It just seemed like a thing to do, but I'm still not doing it. I think there's a pair of diamond-crusted flip-flops going begging, here.) One of these days, though. In the meantime, this thread and the rest of the internet definitely provides more than enough amusement in regards to sex.
Asshook!
Polar bear!
Asshook!
NoiseDesign - Jul 10, 2009 12:34:14 pm PDT #16192 of 30000
Our wings are not tired
Polar bear asshook!