That does suck, SH. It seems like every time I turn around someone's talking about moving to Seattle, so maybe the right smart, gay, goth guy's enroute as we type.

I had been seeing some appeal to the idea of aging into a happy, single little old lady with cats. Then I added Welbutrin to the Zoloft. Yeah, I'd kinda like to be petting a male other than Leifur these days.

even worse than pirates?

eta: Or scurvy? Rum, sodomy and the lash?

Those all sound grand to me.

Hm. Maybe I should try adding Zoloft to the Welbutrin.

edit for the spelling good

In between, however, lots of Teh Sex with various friends, workmates and other lucky LUCKY fellows.

::is very jealous of those lucky lucky bastards::

Serial monogamist. I think I've had over ten relationships that lasted more than a year?

Let me think....yes, exactly ten (including the two marriages). Plus a few that lasted six to nine months.

I only ever had one pickup and that was disastrous. Had a fair amount of sex-with-friends between relationships.

Then I added Wellbutrin to the Zoloft.

Zing! It's pretty zippy, isn't it?

Re: relationships, remember that episode of Buffy where she slept with Parker, and Willow said, "Don't you LOVE this part, where it's all new and everything is a discovery?"

I so totally DON'T. I hate getting into a relationship; I love BEING in a relationship. I love the knowing-you, not the getting-to-know-you.

t edit But then, almost all of my relationships (such as they were) were with people I was friends with first, sometimes for years, so the getting-to-know-you was already out of the way, in large part.

Serial monogamist here. I shudder to think of what my twenties would have been like if I hadn't been. (I'm sure the StuntHusband is also shuddering, because he was around for most of that.)

INO, I haz a PixKristin! In my kitchen! nyah-nyah-nyah!

IO(O)N, I would like to state for the record that *I* have never accidentally set anything on fire, therefore I am perfectly trustworthy with open flames. So there.

Zing! It's pretty zippy, isn't it?

Oh, yeah. On the upside, I'm getting a lot more done and thinking a lot more clearly. On the other hand, enough of the thoughts are about hot passersby to be really not useful.

ETA: And as I'm a shy introvert, none of the hot passersby are getting done.

Zing! It's pretty zippy, isn't it?

Oh, yeah.

Adding Zoloft back in to my pharmaceutical cocktail helped curb my panic attacks, but it's added a few pounds, for fuck's sake. Plus, I'm having low-level anxiety a LOT lately. Dunno what that's about.

So...any thoughts on male-pattern balding in females being related to Zoloft and/or Wellbutrin and/or BCP?

I seem to be a hormonal superfund site these days, but I don't want to rule anything out. And I'd like to keep my hair.