It's kink if, after you've already consented to sex, it requires extra permission. Like, I wouldn't think twice about going down on someone but I'd probably ask before I smacked them on the ass.
And Laga with the win on a quick, practical definition of kink. Although, if you are with the same partner long enough, does one just assume some things are ok? Wait, that's rhetorical. I'm afraid what can of worms that would open with this gang.
if you are with the same partner long enough, does one just assume some things are ok?
Depends on what the things are, I reckon.
*in neither the feather nor chicken way
...in the "I have six baby
what's?
" way?
My luggage is bigger than me.
I was an Anthropology major. Which, being the study of all things Men Do, can be related to study of asshooks.
Which are also used to
tether the head back. Which is a better use, anyway, because if a hook is in there, nothing else can be, so what's the point? And if something else can, a line has been crossed somewhere.
I have no boundaries. I don't repress. My pants are not merely not on fire, they are hanging on the patio in full view from the road.
My luggage is bigger than me.
I'm picturing you dragging a steamer trunk.
The Boy is still confused by the prevalence of corsets among the Buffistas who are not kinky, because he considers them a Kink 101 garment.
I like them because they make my boobs look fantastic. And good for my back.
they make my boobs look fantastic.
Now
that's
an understatement.
Another anthropology major, here.
In re your whitefont, Zen, after reading much comment fic in the st_xi_kink LJ community, many will beg to differ with your last sentence. :P